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So I had an adult circumcision in September 2021, aged 21. My foreskin was too tight and needed taking off. I am now seriously regretting having it done. Although the skin used to be tight it was very sensitive which allowed me to feel loads when I was fucking or jerking off.
There are 2 major problems I have had since my circumcision.
Firstly I think the surgeon was over enthusiastic with his cutting as I have ended up with a VERY low and tight circumcision. Before I had it done I never knew there were different styles of circumcision or what they meant. On the day of my operation the surgeon said he could put the scar line near my glans or a way up my shaft. I opted for near the glans as I thought it would be less noticeable there. I thought I was being offered a purely aesthetic choice. What I have ended up with is no inner skin left at all. The skin on my shaft is no where near as sensitive as the foreskin used to be. Now when I am fucking, there is so much sensation I am missing which is SO frustrating.
The second problem is the texture of my glans. It felt sensitive during the healing process. But then the skin started to peel off, like the aftermath of a burn. After that it went dry, rubbery and way less sensitive. I have been using moisturiser every day which has helped soften it a bit, but is doing nothing to bring back the sensitivity.
The combination of these 2 issues have dramatically affected sex. When I am fucking I feel so much less than I used to. I get the feeling of spasms in my dick when I ejaculate but the actual act of fucking or being sucked off is giving me very little pleasure. I have a really fucking horrible feeling of frustration about having been circumcised which is getting stronger.
The only three pieces of advice on another forum I have discussed this were:
1. Use tons of lube. I am doing this. It stops my glans drying out during sex but it not giving me any extra feeling.
2. Stimulate the skin between the scar and glans. But there is no skin between the scar line and glans. The inner skin has all gone.
3. Start foreskin restoration. This would be a long process as it is such a tight circumcision. It will not help me short-term.
People say it is cleaner and looks better to be circumcised. Both those are true. But having such a reduced feeling when fucking is driving me crazy. I would pay money to get the feeling back which has gone. I have an active sex life which used to give me loads of pleasure.
Has anyone else got the same feeling of frustration and regret? What can I do about it? Has anyone found solutions to the lack of sensitivity? Has anyone had similar regret and managed to overcome it?
I have posted this in several forums as no idea which is the most suitable.
There are 2 major problems I have had since my circumcision.
Firstly I think the surgeon was over enthusiastic with his cutting as I have ended up with a VERY low and tight circumcision. Before I had it done I never knew there were different styles of circumcision or what they meant. On the day of my operation the surgeon said he could put the scar line near my glans or a way up my shaft. I opted for near the glans as I thought it would be less noticeable there. I thought I was being offered a purely aesthetic choice. What I have ended up with is no inner skin left at all. The skin on my shaft is no where near as sensitive as the foreskin used to be. Now when I am fucking, there is so much sensation I am missing which is SO frustrating.
The second problem is the texture of my glans. It felt sensitive during the healing process. But then the skin started to peel off, like the aftermath of a burn. After that it went dry, rubbery and way less sensitive. I have been using moisturiser every day which has helped soften it a bit, but is doing nothing to bring back the sensitivity.
The combination of these 2 issues have dramatically affected sex. When I am fucking I feel so much less than I used to. I get the feeling of spasms in my dick when I ejaculate but the actual act of fucking or being sucked off is giving me very little pleasure. I have a really fucking horrible feeling of frustration about having been circumcised which is getting stronger.
The only three pieces of advice on another forum I have discussed this were:
1. Use tons of lube. I am doing this. It stops my glans drying out during sex but it not giving me any extra feeling.
2. Stimulate the skin between the scar and glans. But there is no skin between the scar line and glans. The inner skin has all gone.
3. Start foreskin restoration. This would be a long process as it is such a tight circumcision. It will not help me short-term.
People say it is cleaner and looks better to be circumcised. Both those are true. But having such a reduced feeling when fucking is driving me crazy. I would pay money to get the feeling back which has gone. I have an active sex life which used to give me loads of pleasure.
Has anyone else got the same feeling of frustration and regret? What can I do about it? Has anyone found solutions to the lack of sensitivity? Has anyone had similar regret and managed to overcome it?
I have posted this in several forums as no idea which is the most suitable.