Adult Entertainer

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by D_Martin van Burden, Jul 9, 2006.

  1. D_Martin van Burden

    D_Martin van Burden Account Disabled

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    A few weeks ago, I had applied with an agency to become an escort. An escort is defined as an individual who performs adult entertainment and erotic services (but not sexual intercourse) for a prescribed fee. An agency collects a service fee and links the client with the entertainer. The entertainer meets the client at their residence, a hotel room, or other discreet setting, and bargains for additional services like a massage, a dance, a shower scene, etc., collects the agreed extra tips, and takes off.

    A buddy of mine used to drive the girls (since the entertainers are typically girls) around and get paid a percentage of their tips for his time. And another friend decided to do phone operations -- a.k.a. the person to whom you request an available entertainer.

    Here in Lexington, guys will usually call for girls, and while a few women will occasionally call for a male, most of the clients are gay men. The few male entertainers I heard about were also gay men, so me looking into this industry, I'd be one of the, eh, gay-for-pay guys, I guess.

    That didn't really worry me. I had a driver available. I had protection. I can defend myself. I can say "no," and all I really gotta do is just look the part since I don't have to fuck 'em to earn money. (That's illegal, anyway.)

    I did the application process, got the photo identification ready, paid a small fee, and got approved through the county government. If I decide to do it, I just have to go downtown, pay $100 for my actual license, and I can start. I might have resorted to that -- just for the money -- since I'm more interested in getting my debt under control.

    I hear it's a good way to make some under-the-table cash. Once you pay the license fees, and this agency required you to purchase a digital recorder you carry on your person to ensure that all of your sessions are legit, you can stand to make a profit.

    It's primarily a time issue. I start a new part-time job next month, and between the two of them, I'll have a 60-hour work week (ideally). Day job, night job. I guess I'm on call, and after working 10 hours a day, I don't think I'll be up for showering, changing into something sexy, and talking shop.

    Second. No guarantees. You gotta "bargain" for stuff. The lady wh hired me sent me a script that she has the models learn, and on it, you list the services you're willing to do. I got instantly stumped. Massage. Shower scene. Would I jack off?

    Third... eh...

    Dirty money? No, not that. I've done this before -- well, just one time and it was for a quick bit of cash that got me to New Orleans. That was my experience of it. Anyway, I just don't have the extra income to "invest" in this porn thing and I think I'd probably get cold feet at the first call anyway. I'd rather have some more control over this.

    Heh. I dragged my friend who said he was interested in hearing more about the modelling thing, and I think we came to some consensus about not having too big a problem dealing with male clients. We laughed because I offered that we'd work as a modeling team. He said that we should do some kind of striptease to the Pussycat Dolls single "Buttons."

    It just became a joke. I laugh at it now. It was just a trip, though.
     
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    I say if you have the body, go for it.

    Use extreme caution though.
    There's alot of Creeps out there, and always get your money up front.

    You may be good at defending yourself, but I would carry keychain mace with you.

    You'll have to send me a Trial Video of you so that I can make sure your "up" for the job :biggrin1: :biggrin1: :biggrin1:

    (2:50AM?? insomnia hun?)

    Corey
     
  3. playainda336

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    I thought about such things at one time. I didn't go as far as you did, but I did think about it. But then I thought about the same things you did. Really, I don't want to have to put up with such things...and I have little patience if I tell you no and you keep approaching me. If I were you, I'd laugh too...
     
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    I can't tell you what you could expect as a male escort. I have known women who were strippers, hookers and escorts. All of them put up with a lot more SH** than I could have handled in order to make some cash. If you are actually serious it may be worth investing in the services of an escort and ask him a little about his experience and what you could expect. He may lie to keep competition away, but he must consider what he does worth the cash he gets paid or he would have a different job. And what the hell, even if you decide not to do it you would have a good conversation and a massage to boot.
     
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