Adultfriendfinder

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by B_3milimeters, Sep 23, 2008.

  1. B_3milimeters

    B_3milimeters New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 13, 2006
    Messages:
    45
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Red Bank NJ
    Is this site worth it? I signed up with this username ( 3milimeters) & it is mostly guys messaging me. Tried to speak with some women and it gave me links to some various pay sex sites. Is it a scam or do any of you use the site?

    I travel for work all the time & thought it would be cool to find some cool women all over the place. Sucks having to work all the time. Stuck in Newport News VA now until thurs...
     
  2. cjc2806

    cjc2806 Member

    Joined:
    Aug 31, 2006
    Messages:
    179
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    western NY
    Im starting to think all those sites are a scam really....I tried to post something about hook up and dating websites on here, about what people thought of them, and I cant find the message I posted or any responses to it...

    but I agree, i never get responses from those. I think a lot of people are basically reluctant to use sites like that, I mean they put their profiles on there, and in that way they are out going .........but when it comes to meeting anyone for real....they dont really back it up....if they do, they feel weird about it, because there is an odd feeling no matter where its from on the internet, whether it be Eharmony.com or adultfriendfinder ...or what not....

    Ive given up on those websites, they are too expensive and no one talks on there....which sucks, because I live in a small town area... not exactly NYC where I live, so I never meet women......but Im certainly not dumping money on these websites anymore.
     
  3. BigDallasDick8x6

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Mar 22, 2006
    Messages:
    4,012
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    163
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Dallas TX (North Oak Cliff)
    There was some pay matchmaker site in the news a couple years ago because it turned out many of the messages the customers received had actually come from the staff instead of other customers!! If they didn't think you were getting enough messages for you to keep renewing your membership, they would pose as other people looking for a match and message you!
     
  4. crescendo69

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Aug 27, 2006
    Messages:
    8,142
    Likes Received:
    20
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Knoxville, TN
    I gave up AFF a long time ago. Money-grubbing pricks.
     
  5. cjc2806

    cjc2806 Member

    Joined:
    Aug 31, 2006
    Messages:
    179
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    western NY
    I agree..... are there any of these sites out there that are any good??? They are so riddled with fake ads on there that are hooked to porn sites, and have people who work for them writing fake emails to potential customers.. .its sick.....and they are all overpriced too.

    There are people out there who meet people that way .Ive met a few for awhile ....but again im the guy who lives in the rural area where a lot of the single ones are odd... for me its a numbers game getting responses and trying to avoid the odd ladies...but it doesnt help when you have crooked corrupted websites stealing your money for nothing.
     
  6. Jovial

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Apr 11, 2006
    Messages:
    2,404
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    5
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    CA
    You may be better off with regular dating sites. But I think there are real people on AFF. If the pictures look to good to be true, then they probably are. They get you to sign up thinking that you will get to meet all the hot models in the ads. You have to be willing to meet people that aren't idea, especially if you are not ideal yourself.
     
  7. hanginout11

    hanginout11 New Member

    Joined:
    May 26, 2007
    Messages:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    I have meet singles and couples on the site. Find out where the meet and greets in your area are and go to one. These people are all over you right in the bar. Couple on the site are a trip, I always get "this is for her" because they have hooked up with girls. The site is for real you just have to get to check your profile often and chat with local people.
     
  8. B_starinvestor

    B_starinvestor New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 1, 2006
    Messages:
    4,409
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Midwest
    I belonged for about a year. Most of the girls were just selling thier webcams or trying to get your personal email to sell you something.

    A lot of the couples are real; but hard to connect with.

    Several of the pictures - guys and girls - were pics I've seen all over the internet.

    It was a complete waste for me.
     
  9. B_3milimeters

    B_3milimeters New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 13, 2006
    Messages:
    45
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Red Bank NJ
    Drat. That's what I thought.

    It would have been nice if it was as straightforward as it seemed.

    1. Log on
    2. ???
    3. get laid
     
  10. bguy

    bguy Member

    Joined:
    Mar 12, 2008
    Messages:
    255
    Likes Received:
    2
    Yes, there are real people on AFF, but many of the profiles are cam/scam girls. As was said before, if the pictures look professional then it's probably too good to be true.

    I actually met one really great girl there but she lived just far enough away from me that it was difficult for the two of us to see each other. Some other guy snatched her up (saw it on her MySpace page)
     
  11. Anime12478

    Anime12478 New Member

    Joined:
    May 29, 2006
    Messages:
    25
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    I have actually met a few people on there. It's not a complete scam as there are lots of real people on there, it just takes effort to attract people.

    One big misconception is that there are so many people on there that it should be easy to find people, but it takes a lot more work than that. A lot of profiles I see on there just have that they are there and want sex. Then the picture on there just has a penis or a vagina on it. What you need is a picture that shows your face and/or whole body and a profile that sets yourself apart from the millions of people that you don't try to do anything. What I mean by that is tell people about your personality, likes and dislikes, what you like to do in bed...anything that shows that there's a real person there. Trust me, you'll see much more activity on your account if you try.
     
  12. jayagoose

    jayagoose Member

    Joined:
    Apr 12, 2007
    Messages:
    51
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    East Coast
    Just use regular dating sites like eHarmony, match.com, etc. Plenty of horny girls on there. Troll around myspace messaging random cute girls in your area. What do you have to lose? If you're interesting and don't look like a total troll eventually you'll find someone who wants to hook up.
     
  13. D_Alfredo Hites

    D_Alfredo Hites Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Apr 9, 2008
    Messages:
    235
    Likes Received:
    2
    for sure on the myspace. when it first came on the scene a few years ago, i was seriously pimping on there. i had girls contacting me wanting to hook up. it was great.

    this one girl came over to my apt to hang out; we had a few beers; then i took her up to my room and she sucked my dick. then i had her bent over my bed, just fucking her, and she was doing that squeal thing. my friend was downstairs and heard. it was great...

    thank you myspace :)
     
  14. Straight82

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    May 24, 2008
    Messages:
    88
    Albums:
    2
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Las Vegas
    Verified:
    Photo
    my take on all of this

    AFF is not a complete waste, though the ratio is pretty simple, out of 100,000 people using the service, 80,000 are men, of the remaining 20%, 10 percent are couples (which as couples go, about 90% are real people though 75% are looking for single females only, good luck with that) and of the 10% that are female, only about 10% are real women
    mind you, i live in las vegas, so your ratios may vary, whole lot of womens on there from here looking to be "rented"

    so as a single man looking for some hetro action, your looking at about 1% of the total population of the service as being "available" if your looking for some wang, then the site would be awesome, plenty of wang searching going on there

    as touched on before, yes AFF be some greedy bastards, so only sign up for gold and silver if you have a little cash burning a hole in your pocket, and dont expect anything to come of it

    as for the effectiveness of the service,
    i have gotten laid though the service by 3 different girls, had my first introduction into swinging/swaping, and have met my girlfriend from there

    if you actually can find someone to connect with. its a helluva service, we swing about 1-3 times a month, and we couldnt be happier with the way things have turned out, i found somone that understands me, and views alot of things from the same directions i do, and its also nice because both of us wanted to get into a swinging relationship before we started seeing each other, wich is great seeing as how nobody had to whip out the whole "maybe we could look at swinging" conversation

    as for myspace, i never got any play from there, but as with everything

    "your results may vary"
     
  15. D_Seymour_Dix

    D_Seymour_Dix New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 19, 2008
    Messages:
    721
    Likes Received:
    1
    AFF in my opinion is a waste of time like the others say :(
     
  16. Zuriel

    Zuriel New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 20, 2007
    Messages:
    65
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Los Angeles, CA
    I will add my 2 cents as a female on AFF. As another poster suggested you might do better with a more mainstream site. Sadly the double standard is alive and thriving and there is still a taboo about women being open about liking sex. I still get a lot of moral baggage dumped on me by guys who call me a whore/slut or a hooker for being on a sex site.

    However, overall the experience has been positive and of the men I do actually meet they tend to be more normal than those on match, eharmony, etc. You don’t have to actually pay but you are really limited in what you can do if you are a free member. Though you can boost your points with page hits by joining groups, writing a blog and chatting.

    Most all of the men I have talked to have been contacted by and met couples for sex where the husband wants to watch the wife. So if you are into that you will get that action especially if you have a big dick. It helps if you chat with people in the chat room. Be open, open-minded, friendly and respectful.
     
  17. alcatraz808

    alcatraz808 New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 14, 2007
    Messages:
    4
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    US
    A few of my friends joined AFF and it seems that a couple times a week a bunch of us end up in the same room chatting with people on it.

    The key is to have your own webcam and do interesting things. We'll have 5 or so people on there at any given time just teasing the girls (theres always guys trying to talk to you but being straight we politely ignore them) to keep their attention. The other day we had 2 girls and a guy doing everything under the sun for us on their webcam and I ended up jerking off on cam while one of the hottest girls I've ever seen fingered herself for me.

    We've had offers from guys offering to pay us to come suck us off to girls saying they want to fly in from all over the country to get gang banged by us.

    I had hooked up with a few chicks from myspace, and I'd say that as long as you can be interesting, AFF has just as much if not more potential. If you get on and just show a picture of your dick and expect girls to want to come fuck you, then you'll be disappointed. If you have something interesting to say, and a big cock to boot, then you'll be golden.
     
  18. lwd

    lwd New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 19, 2007
    Messages:
    178
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Let's switch gears here and talk about the casual encounters section of craigslist...here in LA, there are tons of ads. I'm sure it's a lot of fakes and porn sites. Has anyone had any success on this section of CL?
     
  19. Rubenesque

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Oct 12, 2006
    Messages:
    2,708
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    15
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    United Kingdom
    I've been a member on AFF for about 4yrs. It's ok... if you're a woman, but I hear it's pretty grim for the blokes. I suppose it would be great for gay guys.

    My name there is dizzzzzzy (that's 6 z's incase you're gonna take a look haha)

    I get quite a bit of grief on there, because i'm open about liking sex, and equally open about disliking "cyber", some people don't seem able to accept that I'm of the opinion that 'those who can DO, and those who can't TALK ABOUT IT'
     
    #19 Rubenesque, Sep 25, 2008
    Last edited: Sep 25, 2008
  20. D_Merringtonne Meathead

    Joined:
    May 20, 2006
    Messages:
    251
    Likes Received:
    0
    I joined for a year about five years ago, specifically looking for married women in two countries interested in casual sex or longer affairs. Most of it was a complete waste of time, but I did actually meet five women, had sex with three, and am still seeing one of them five years later. So that is probably worth my one year Silver subscription.
     
Draft saved Draft deleted