Ok, so first let me say, I consider myself straight, but I have fooled around with like two guys when I was like 13. lol I'm a 20 yr old college sophomore, and in one my classes there is this guy. He is a freshman, and he looks near my 5'7 height and skinny like I am and has these indescribable dark but glistening black eyes with his black hair. I can't figure out what his nationality is (def not black/asian lol and i'm very sure he's not latino but if I had to stereotypically guess I'd say moderately-tan russian) and more importantly, I can't figure out what his sexual orientation is. He doesn't at all have gay face, but his face does give off this vibe I can't explain. Now the obvious question is what has he done to make me think he's not straight? Well the thing is, it's more than just one thing. It's not a feminine personality, mannerisms, or voice though. It's this calm demeanor and relaxed voice, and relaxed nature. Everytime I see him on campus, he's smoking, and I know that he's been given this stereotypical "stoner" image. And obviously, that doesn't indicate anything, when you read this, but how he presents himself with this calm voice, he seems so indifferent to an alpha male AND feminie demeanor. He's neither. Now, one day when we had exams, he sat next to me in the back, and needed to borrow a pen. We had a brief conversation that was initiated by him about studying and how stupid the class was...and the entire time I couldn't stop grinning, and giving bashful looks, and I knew even in that moment how utterly stupid it was to act like that when I didn't even know his orientation, but I knew anyway, and I honestly couldn't help it. And that's not me at all. lol He smiled during the conversation too, because of the jokes we were making of the teacher, but his smile was just as vague as his personality, and I don't know what to think. He could very well just be a very friendly straight guy but when we pass each other on campus it's just this weird feeling (probably mostly from me) of us trying to give each other enough attention when we nod and say hi and keep walking. It's driving me crazy! lol Can someone offer some insight?