Hi everyone, Just recently I had a really interesting evening. I was chatting with a friend of mine and he started talking about sex, and how he felt horny. We never talk about sex, because he's not very open and doesn't like talking about many things, and especially not sex. Anyway, the long story short he told me that he would love to get together with me and "experiment". I'm not exactly sure what to do, because I'm not interested in that. He is one of my best friends and he's got a wife and two really young kids, and I know them well. He's always been the most straight guy ever, and has had all the girls in college. He's good looking, he's a great guy, everyone likes him and he can get any girl he wants. He has never cheated on his wife since they got married, at least not that I know and he told me so. Is he thinking that by what he calls "experimenting" with me he's not cheatting on his wife? I just don't understand what he sees in me. I don't want him to get hurt, I mean it takes a lot of courage to come out to someone like he did, and he told me many times how he really trusts me, but at the same time I want him to understand that I'm not interested in that. I still want to be friends. Personally I don't like things to change between us because of what happened. If anything, I think we are closer now because he's opened up to me, but I'm concerned he's going to feel rejected and then feel ashamed and things are going to change between us. The worst is that I can't talk to anyone about it because I'm afraid people will find out about him and then he'll be in trouble, so I can't even ask any of my friends for advice. Any of you had similar situation? What did you do? Any suggestions?