Advice for a toy for her

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  1. gimme_another_inch

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    Hi all,
    I'd like to buy a toy as a present for an intimate girlfriend, never done this before and also her never got one, what would be your advice?
    I also need advice on where to buy online, no strange shapes please, I wouldn't want to hurt with something strange.

    thanks
     
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    My SO and I have played around with toys for a couple of years. I have found that while I like to penetrate her with Dildos, etc. she is primarily turned on by clitoral stimulation. She also doesn't like the glass dildos because they are so darned hard.

    The best of the best is a good, solid Rabbit. We got one of these a month or so ago and she absolutely loves it. http://www.adameve.com/Vibrators/Rabbit-Vibrators/sp-wild-g-spot-vibrator-11417.aspx?f=1&itemtype=30

    She normally has a screamer of an orgasm within two minutes.
     
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    Cyberskin Dream Cock. You can google it. I love mine. In fact it's making me wet just thinking about it! :tongue:
     
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    I agree with DJG.

    I just got one for my girlfriend and she LOVES it;) It's easy to use and keep clean. She says the trick is to warm it up with hot water before use;)
     
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    I'm not into dildos or vibrators, although I did buy a glass dildo. After two uses, I threw it away. It was way too hard.

    (Boys are toys... why buy substitutes...)
     
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    Buy a few different things specially if she has never played with one because you dont want to turn her away from toys if she doesn't happen to like the one you get.
     
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    My first (and only) toy is a little butterfly like these...

    Butterfly Vibrator in Use - Vibrators - Sextoiz.in

    I like it quite a bit, and it might be a good one if she hasn't ever used one before because it's not so obviously a sex toy (it might be a little less embarassing to use it the first time).
     
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    Start with a standard, 14.99 small vibrator. They take 1 or 2 AA, and kick ass.
     
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    i was just looking at one of those a couple of weeks ago and thought it would be nice to try. :smile:
     
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    That was exactly what I was going to say. I have tons of toys, but that's a toy that'll be really extra special. For one thing, you have to actually put effort into making it. Also, it's a toy that you can have the only one in existance, so it can be really unique. It might be helpful to have her help in making the vibrator, though. :wink:
     
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    Buy her some really good shoes, she'll love them far more than any toy :)
     
  16. gimme_another_inch

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    you don't know how many "expensive" shoes she got along with other "expensive" chlotes and never used or misued them (250 euros shoes used like everyday ones and turned to throw in few weeks...)

    well, what about the oh mi bod ipod vibrator? did anybody ever use it? the glass dildos are attractive too, the rabbit ones look pretty weird for a first timer, don't you agree?
     
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    my bf was too embarassed to go to a sex store and buy me a toy so he went to the local grocery store and bought a cucumber, and a plantain bananna.. and let me tell you the bananna felt so good..

    my bf warmed it up and threw a condom on it and stARTED USING IT ...It was about a foot long, hit my spot real well. He DP'd me with it and his cock, both of them barely fit

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    Well, not embarassed to buy condoms...
    so, both in your pussy or a real DP?
    that's an idea, a condomed veggie up front and a meaty one behind ;-)
     
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    my bf entered from behind and he had the bananna in front
     
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