Advice for an anaesthetic cream or something similar

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  1. B_yohoo

    B_yohoo New Member

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    Me and my girlfriend have definitely established that size is an issues for us, me too large or her to tight or sensitive doesn't matter.... that means that I can't go too deep in many positions, that she get sored if I go on for more than usually 10 minutes... and anyway I can't do sex with full penetration for a second time, soon after the first time, almost never. This is way far from what I think is "normality" and generally for what I remember of my previous experiences... and I know porn is waaaaay far from reality, but sex can't be always gentle and delicate...!!! I want to go hard sometimes...!

    I often use lube, but this is not enough. Do you think there's some special lube or cream on the market that can do something like anaesthetize her? ...if so, does that anaesthetize even my cock or compromise my erections? I heard that in porn they use something like that, but I don't know if it's just a "legend"...
     
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    It's not really too good of an idea, since pain is the natural way for the body to tell you that something is wrong. You could end up doing damage.
     
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    The fact that you are hurting her is supposed to tell you to stop or at least go at it less. As far as numbing her up, the various creams available to "cure" minute man syndrome are often found to transfer from you to her and them numb her up so she then never comes so I would think that if you used something like that to numb her up the same thing would happen and you would not feel anything and certainly never come.

    You don't come, she does not come, and for extra added bonus you do real damage.

    You want that?

    See if you can SLOWLY stretch her out, live with if you can't or if banging away is more important go back to some of the bigger girls you have been with.

    You choose
     
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    My b/f and I have used the lube that anaesthetizes whoever is on the receiving end. It is true, as mentioned above, that once you enter you will also pick up some of the same anaesthetizer you used and as said either not be able to cum and with her on the receiving end it's almost like getting fucked with novacaine. You feel it and know it's there but not much else. I remember myself a day after being sorer than ever and I knew why too. I didn't feel the pain. I didn't know I was hurting or in pain until it wore off. I would never advise this for anyone. Pain IS as also said above the bodys way of saying hold on, it hurts, something isn't right. That doesn't mean to give up. Talk to others out here with large dicks and find out how they "break in" a pussy that isn't too appreciative at the beginning of their relationship or whatever, and after a bit of time she now would have it no other way. I know there are a few out here. In my case and my b/f's for that matter, patience was the key, more comfortable positions, etc., until after awhile we both accustomed ourselves to each others size.
     
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    i've used the minute man cremes and they prevent the nerve endings to respond and thus, you can fuck for a long time, but you don't cum.......until the stuff wears off.
     
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    You both might want to consult with a good urologist to rule out any physical issues and possibly discover something medically endorsed that might help without injury to either party.
     
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