I have an ex-gf, sort of...I could restart a sexual relationship with her but I don't really want to. What I do want is for her to find a hot guy with a big cock! She's open to the idea of being introduced to someone. She's very pretty, and very fit, the but the problem is she's extremely shy. She doesn't go out at all and hangs out only around her circle of friends. I'm afraid that after I leave (I'm going to leave the country soon) she will end up with one of her schlubby beta friends and that makes me annoyed. She could do much better, not just in terms of sex, but for a relationship. Anyway, as this is about sex I should say that besides being shy she's rather inhibited too and a "good girl." Unfortunately I didn't have enough interest to bring out the slut in her but I'm trying to see if I can find a guy to do it. We've agreed to go out together to a bar/club type place and I'm going to observe her and see why men aren't picking her up more often--I'm not making this up, she's really quite stunningly pretty, so I don't understand why she hasn't had more relationships or boyfriends, it may be that she turns men away. Anyway, do any of you think that I should also put up an ad and have a guy meet us at the club so that I make SURE she gets hit on? Of course this isn't just for her sake, I do think it would be good for her to have a hung boyfriend and have fun sex while I'm away, or to have a real relationship, but on the other hand I myself find it very hot too. I've wanted to see her get it on with another guy for some time now, but she's not exactly the kind of girl who'd be open to the suggestion, as you can imagine. But aside form this there is another element of self-interest because if I don't find her a good boyfriend or fuckbuddy she's going to write me every day, call me every day, etc., (even though we're technically "ex") and that's really annoying, and also I get upset at seeing pretty girls with beta dweebs and I don't want her to end up with guy from her acquaintances. Any advice? Besides taking her out to bar/club? I think it's difficult to put up personal ad on craigslist because that's mostly for sex.