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Three cheers for being controlling, and not being able to let go.
Newsflash, if she's that clingy that she'll be calling you every day, and you're ex....she's not the type you want to be friends with after a breakup. What will happen once you find another girl, especially one that she doesn't approve of? Furthermore, what's going to happen if SHE finds someone YOU don't approve of?
Basically, as stated above, you want to run her life for her. You want to pick her new guy, and basically control her situation. That's the reason that she can't find someone else. It's never going to be someone you approve of, and deep down she knows that.
I say, cut your ties with her. It will be better for the both of you....
No you're wrong. I did try to cut her off before. I was away for two months and instead of finding a new bf she wrote me every day. I'm not just going to tell her to fuck off, she's also a friend.
Let me give you an analogous example. I don't know who you are, but let's say you're an attractive guy with a big cock who, if he had the right attitude, could bed many girls. But you're shy and withdrawn and lack confidence and you don't, and even when hot girls hit on you, you give the impression that you're not interested in them. Then let's say you finally get a gf who's good to you, but eventually she has to leave the state. Would you find it "controlling" and evil of her to try to set you up with some hot girls before she leaves, and show you that you can do well with hot girls in general? Also, so what if she'd get off on that idea too? That would clearly be better for both of you.
I don't understand why you'd team up with the insane women who post here who think females should be put on a pedestal and their desires not questioned, etc.; you don't need to be a white knight especially given what I'm trying to do. The asshole thing to do would be to cut her off and then let her eventually hook up with a feminist schlub betaboy.
Then she'll end up obese and posting on LPSG at age 44 like "dolfette."