Advice for Gay cismale with transgender male

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So I am 25 years old and I am a gay cis male.

I met this Transgender male, not fetishizing, honestly always thought trans bodies were beautiful and unique. I found him attractive well before I knew he was trans. When he told me it didnt change a thing. But besides looks we connect on almost level. He is around my age, we have a lot of the same interests.

He was very open with me up front and asked me if I was familiar was the transmale anatomy. I said I am not but I want to learn and very open to new things. He took the time to explain it and directed me to some links that could help. I now know exactly what he calls his parts and what he prefers.

I just want to make sure that Im approaching this right. I want him to feel comfortable with me.
 

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I think trans men themselves could answer this better.

But from what I can tell, I think you're being respectful and approaching him the right way. The key part is trans men are men, so treat him as you would any other man you're interested in and pay attention to what he likes and wants.
 
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Englad has it exactly right.

It's fair for you to be honest with him that you've never been with a trans man before and you want to be respectful and sensitive to his feelings... which it sounds like you have done. So bravo!

It sounds like he understands you are trying to go about this in a respectful and sensitive way, and sounds like he's responding in kind. This is all as it should be.

Just keep communicating and you guys should have a great time!
 
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