Advice for getting over FinDom fetish?

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I am addicted to FinDom. It’s become a huge turn on for me to pay tribute to guys who are really hung, especially if they’re straight.

I recognize it’s the dumbest fetish there is, and I’m just throwing money away, but it’s still a turn on.

I’ll quit for a while, but always end up downloading cashapp again, and falling back into it.

Any advice on how to get over an unhealthy fetish?
 
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I’m in the same predicament. but i can control how much i send, i always focus on that. try not to send above your means, and enjoy it for what it is. straight guys >>
I guess that’s a reasonable approach. I just seem to have little self control when it comes to hung straight guys
 
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I am addicted to FinDom. It’s become a huge turn on for me to pay tribute to guys who are really hung, especially if they’re straight.

I recognize it’s the dumbest fetish there is, and I’m just throwing money away, but it’s still a turn on.

I’ll quit for a while, but always end up downloading cashapp again, and falling back into it.

Any advice on how to get over an unhealthy fetish?
do you think you really want to stop? I don’t know about unhealthy if makes you happy.
 
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I’m in the same predicament. but i can control how much i send, i always focus on that. try not to send above your means, and enjoy it for what it is. straight guys >>
I just hope our straight young brothers understand that that is a small kinky minority of gays who get hard beeing a sub and pay money for the straight and get humiliated.
 

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Like @THEPIGSQUEEZER said, it's a hobby and you spend money on it honestly in the same way as people spend their money on video games or a new baseball bat.

My advice would be, if you can, set up an account you will use exclusively for paying your doms and transfer however much you're comfortable spending in a month to that account. Once that account reaches zero, you don't add more money to it until the next month. I know it's possible you will end up just topping it up anyway, but maybe when the account reaches zero it'll at least make you think for a min, and it'll be a reminder that you are in control and you can choose not to add more money until the next month

I really hope you can get to a place you're happy with financially, because you deserve to enjoy your hobby while being financially secure :heart:
 

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I just hope our straight young brothers understand that that is a small kinky minority of gays who get hard beeing a sub and pay money for the straight and get humiliated.
I hope so too...

I enjoy doing calls where a straight guy will show off in his underwear and talk down to me, insult me etc. and I accept that I need to pay in order to get that service, but I don't enjoy the payment element of it. So I'm not into findom, it just so happens that straight guys don't tend to do these things for free :worried::joy:
 
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I am addicted to FinDom. It’s become a huge turn on for me to pay tribute to guys who are really hung, especially if they’re straight.

I recognize it’s the dumbest fetish there is, and I’m just throwing money away, but it’s still a turn on.

I’ll quit for a while, but always end up downloading cashapp again, and falling back into it.

Any advice on how to get over an unhealthy fetish?
You could suport gay artists whi created erotic art instead! Youre going to feel better knowing your small amount of tips will help other people like you! I always suport this guy called @dernzdrawingz on Instagram and he also has a page on Twitter drawing hot muscle white guys! His PayPal e-mail is joalmfloridanopolis@gmail.com you should try it, he usually asks just 20 bucks or even 10 bucks!