Advice for moving out?

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Which organizations? If I do this, which I'm pretty sure I am, I will need all the help I can get

If you want to move out just go get a job that pays enough for you to make rent and eat ramen noodles as Dave Ramsey would say. You're not going to find an organization that is financially going to help you just because your tired of living at home. Get student loans so you don't have to owe your folks anything. It is possible to work a 40 hr week and get an education, just takes a little more time and effort.
 

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If you want to move out just go get a job that pays enough for you to make rent and eat ramen noodles as Dave Ramsey would say. You're not going to find an organization that is financially going to help you just because your tired of living at home. Get student loans so you don't have to owe your folks anything. It is possible to work a 40 hr week and get an education, just takes a little more time and effort.

I never assumed that an organization will give me money because, as you say, I'm "tired of living at home". I don't need student loans and I don't owe my parents anything for my schooling. I do realize that it is possible to work 40 hours a week and get an education... Reading your comment I got a negative vibe from it and whether you intended it or not... you didn't have to be douchey about it...
 

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I never assumed that an organization will give me money because, as you say, I'm "tired of living at home". I don't need student loans and I don't owe my parents anything for my schooling. I do realize that it is possible to work 40 hours a week and get an education... Reading your comment I got a negative vibe from it and whether you intended it or not... you didn't have to be douchey about it...

Well no offense but I have read your threads and am very sympathetic to your situation.(to a point) But you are turning into a Drama Queen. If you don't like your situation move out. I learned very early in life that no one can pass judgement on you if you are paying your own bills.
 

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Well... I can't do it anymore... the ridicule has gotten to me and i'm sick of it... I need to move out of my house asap... I'm not going to wait for them to kick me out. Any and all advice for moving out would be great.

You've got it right, as some others have confirmed - get yourself out of there as soon as you can and by any way you can. Then try to work on your relationships with your family members - if you want to and they're open to it. You'll earn their respect (as much as possible) by taking action and standing up for yourself. Good luck to you. I hope you can find a job and a community of supportive friends. If you ever want to talk, email me any time.