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Good morning everyone! 40yo guy here. Within the last 5 years or so I have really become more bicurious about women. I know this is often the OPPOSITE direction that these things go lol. However, I was talking with a friend of a similar age once and realized that for both of us, the era in which we came out could have had a lot to do with it as bisexuality was still just deemed a "one stop layover to gayville" and you kind of got crap from both sides if you thought you might be bi.
However as I have aged and matured the thoughts of having sex with a woman have come a little more to the forefront of things. I truly believe we only get one life so I am interested in exploring this before I'm too old to do so. I have some straight guy friends who said they'd be down to try a MFM three way if we can find a willing female partner so someone can "show me the ropes" if needed lol but I wanted to ask the Bisexual men here what their experience has been?
My two main things I have noticed are this:
I think it's funny it's so confusing to some of my gay friends - who are all turned on by the thought of straight men trying their first gay experience so I am not sure why they can't flip the card on that and see why it might be hot for them to have their first female experience.
Secondly - most of the women I know, single or not, have known that I have been with men for years - so I feel like I am up against somewhat of a hurdle and not really sure how to clear that.
It's early and I am still caffeinating so pardon the loose though train above but I'd love to hear your thoughts!
However as I have aged and matured the thoughts of having sex with a woman have come a little more to the forefront of things. I truly believe we only get one life so I am interested in exploring this before I'm too old to do so. I have some straight guy friends who said they'd be down to try a MFM three way if we can find a willing female partner so someone can "show me the ropes" if needed lol but I wanted to ask the Bisexual men here what their experience has been?
My two main things I have noticed are this:
I think it's funny it's so confusing to some of my gay friends - who are all turned on by the thought of straight men trying their first gay experience so I am not sure why they can't flip the card on that and see why it might be hot for them to have their first female experience.
Secondly - most of the women I know, single or not, have known that I have been with men for years - so I feel like I am up against somewhat of a hurdle and not really sure how to clear that.
It's early and I am still caffeinating so pardon the loose though train above but I'd love to hear your thoughts!