Advice Needed: How To Conquer The Guy I Like

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Hi!

Let me briefly tell you my story. Because I need your advise and your tricks on how to get this guy!

A while ago I started to follow up on instagram a fitness personallity that I really like. He is not like super famous, but he is a personallity in my country. He has an amazing body and a very cuuuute face. He is a personal trainer and uploads several videos every week showing how to exercise properly.
I like him very much. He always seems really nice and humble on his workout videos.

In the past, I answered to some of his stories or added some comments on his posts, and he liked them (with the heart icon), but that was it.
Sometimes he may also have added a comment in response, but that was it. I was happy with that, because this guy seems 100% straight (even though he doesn't have a girlfriend and never declared what he likes).

Then, recently I uploaded some pictures on my own (my profile was practically empty before) and I guess he liked the pictures (or that's my conclussion) because for the very first time, he texted me without me having to text him. I also saw that he had checked my stories. As a test, I uploaded a couple more pretending to be sexy, and confirmed he watched them.
But I never upload my face, because I workout and try to be fit, but I am aware that I can't compare myself with the fitness instagrammers so I try to be humble about it, and hide my face. And he texted me: "Hey I think I've never seen your face before?" I got really nervous and searched for a decent picture.
He replied "Great! Nice to meet you!".

Since this interaction, we have been talking practically every day.
I have to say, I honestly thought he was straight so I wasn't trying to hook up with him or anything. But since this started, I've been trying him out to figure out if he is gay or not. He never says things like "You look nice" or "I like your body" or things like that, but he does use emojis to express happiness if I share a picture with him.

He also started sending me some pictures on his own. Like "Look, I'm watching TV, I'm so lazy" and the TV is in the background, and what I can see in most part of the picture is his shirtless body.
He also shared his bulge, saying "Wow it's too hot right now, I will sleep in briefs" and sent me a picture of his muscular legs, with a tinny calvin klein underwear, in which I can perfectly notice a big bulge.

I mean... is that something straight people do?
Because I know some straight people like to share their bodies because they are so confident, and maybe he just likes me to like his pictures and tell him how hot he is, but what if he is actually trying to flirt with me, it's just too shy (or scared) to directly say it so?

I think he likes to play... but he wants to keep it discreet. He doesn't want it to be too evident. Maybe because he is a internet personallity that also has been in TV and stuff.

Last night I decided to be clear about my own intentions. I sent him a picture of myself lying on bed with a very visible hardon on my white underwear. I wrote something like "I might need to take these off to sleep this night, too hot over here!".
And he didn't answer. And I was like... OMG I scared him, I was too straight forward, I was too evident!

I was all night pending of a response. Checked the phone everytime I woke up during the night. Nothing.
And then, this morning, he says "Good morning!" like nothing happened, and we start chating again. And at some point, he says "I'm so lazy, I'm still in bed" and sends a picture of himself lying down in bed with a very sexy red underwear... and a visible boner!

So ok, at this point I am doubting on these two possibilities:
-He is gay and interested on me at some level, but he is in the closet and doesn't speak about his orientation and wants to keep it private.
-He is not gay, he just likes to play it off and he likes to be liked, so he enjoys showing off because he knows he is hot AF.

As you can guess, I would honestly rather it to be option 1. I hope he is gay (or bi, don't care) and interested on me.
But if this is the case, I think he is too shy to speak about it openly, so I can't text him something like "Hey can you tell me if you are...?" because he might get scared and just tell me he was playing around, and never text back. I really enjoy talking to him so I don't want to scare him away.

How can I do to ensure things keep getting escalated and I eventually see his cock and maybe even meet him in person (we don't live that far away I think). How do I do this without him shutting off?

Sorry if this was too long, I'm nervous lol
Please share with me if you have any suggestions. Maybe you were in a similar possition before?

Thanks!
PS: I don't save the pictures of him because I really like him and want to be nice to him, so I don't have them to share, please don't ask for this...
 

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Ok so while I was creating this thread, he just sent me another boomerang video of him flexing his muscular arm. What is this about, I mean is it just that he knows he is really hot and likes to exhib himself? Or is he flirting with me for real? Because I made it pretty obvious I like him, he must know already I'm gay.
 

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i'm sorry I keep replying on this thread, but I an't find the button to edit my first message.

I guess what it bugs me is... if he really is gay, why is he talking to me? Because to be honest, there are plenty of other hotter guys on insta, he has like 80.000 followers, most of them are guys, I'm sure half of them gay.
 
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why don't you just ask him if he'd like to grab a beer, or whatever, with you sometime, you could comment along the lines of, since you're not too far away and we've been chatting ages, do you fancy grabbing a beer some time with me?

if he's taken the time to actually properly engage with you there is presumably some connection - as to what that is or where it would lead, who knows?

just be cool, non stalkerish and get to know him in person

oh, and omg yes many younger straight guys who have great bodies are very happy to share/overshare - strokes their egos ;-)

good luck
 
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Hello.
Ok, so there wasn't much expectation about this thread, but I will add the last part as a closure.

I keep talking to him for a couple weeks after my latest posts. Then one day I decided to go "all-in" and be very obvious, because I needed him to either give me a big YES signal or a big NO rejection.

One morning I woke up with a boner, and took a picture of it (in my briefs) and send it to him. I told him "Look how I woke up..." And he texted me with the same, a visible boner on his underwear, and he said "Yeap, me too".
I decided to go even further than that.
I took off my underwear and send him a naked picture of my cock, my text was like "What do I do with this?"
Few minutes without answer...
I am like, OMG I did it. Let's see what happens.
"You should take care of that" is his answer.
And he sends a picture. My heart starts beating so fast, I am like... please be a dick pic be a dick pic...
Jackpot.
He sent me a dick pic. After this, I had pretty clear he was gay or bi, and interested on my.
I sent him a boomerang video jerking off, and added the text "Taking care of it... heheh"
And he answered "Maybe we should skype one day? I don't like content like this on my insta". Since he is a personality, I understand and agree. I give him my Skype address.

Since then, we have jerked off twice through Skype. But apparently that's the only thing he is into.
I tried starting deeper conversations, understanding if he is gay or just likes to play, asked him if he wants to meet in person... but he always ignores that part. He is just interested if I say "Let's jerk off".
It's a pitty because I like him so much, but well, if that's what he'll give me, that's what I'll take.

I guess this is a "happy" ending? I wont date him, but at least I jerked off with him through Skype.
And his cock is really fat and i love it lol

Bye!
 
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