I decided to post this thread in order to get your opinions about a gay couple I'm friends with. Let's call them Dean and Adrian. They're in an open relationship and they say they only play together, ie threesomes, etc. I've arranged to meet them for threesomes before, but they always cancel at the last minute and say that they are busy, or that something else has come up, etc. Now, I've chatted with a few other gay guys in the local area (it's a rural area where we live, so all us gay guys know each other, lol!) and almost all of them say that the same thing has happened to them, ie arranging for a threesome and being cancelled on by Dean and Adrian at the last minute. Apparently it is because one of them, Adrian, isn't into the open relationship things as much as Dean. Certainly, it would seem that it is Dean who is always asking other guys to have threesomes with them. My question is: Do you think given the information that I've given, that Dean would interested in 1-on-1 action with me? I'm not saying that I would make a move on him, or anything, but just wanted to know where I might stand with him. Another bit of information that might be helpful: I arranged to meet up with Dean a little while ago for a drink at a bar, on weekend when Adrian was out of town. He seemed a little flirty, perhaps even acting a little awkward. I wasn't able to stay long, as I had other places to be, but he seemed to be disappointed that I couldn't hang out longer. He even suggested we go to another bar. Do you think he was up for something a little more then?