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Hi everyone, I'm after a little bit of advice.
My ex-boyfriend and I dated for a year, a few years back. We are both in our mid twenties, but when we dated we we're 21/22. His parents are Indian, didn't know he was gay, until they met me. I also took his virginity. Things didn't really work out, I fell out of love and found a new partner, however once that also ended, I ended up kind of getting back with my ex again. We we're more friends with benefits, who went out on dates, sleepovers, very casual...eventually that ended, and we just naturally stopped hanging out.
I moved to Asia for work, and we started talking again, just friendly chats, but that led into cyber sex, phone sex, masturbating videos, etc. We've done this countless times now. However, when we were having cyber sex, sending each other videos, I sent a video of me fucking a guy...I honestly thought he'd find it hot...well, he most certainly didn't. He got angry at me and said "Why would I want to see you fuck somebody else??" and ended the chat. He now won't give me the time of day, treats me kind of coldly and things just aren't the same....so I guess I'm asking - would you be offended by that? Do you think he still likes me? I thought it was innocent fun, but he REALLY didn't like that.
I guess in a way I feel like a bit of a dick because his a perfect match for me, and I feel like I've always hurt him..I broke up with him, took his virginity, broke up with him again, moved on, and now I've hurt him again. I think I should just end everything with him, block, move on, but something always pulls us back together. I honestly didn't mean to hurt his feelings, but I guess thats what I did.
My ex-boyfriend and I dated for a year, a few years back. We are both in our mid twenties, but when we dated we we're 21/22. His parents are Indian, didn't know he was gay, until they met me. I also took his virginity. Things didn't really work out, I fell out of love and found a new partner, however once that also ended, I ended up kind of getting back with my ex again. We we're more friends with benefits, who went out on dates, sleepovers, very casual...eventually that ended, and we just naturally stopped hanging out.
I moved to Asia for work, and we started talking again, just friendly chats, but that led into cyber sex, phone sex, masturbating videos, etc. We've done this countless times now. However, when we were having cyber sex, sending each other videos, I sent a video of me fucking a guy...I honestly thought he'd find it hot...well, he most certainly didn't. He got angry at me and said "Why would I want to see you fuck somebody else??" and ended the chat. He now won't give me the time of day, treats me kind of coldly and things just aren't the same....so I guess I'm asking - would you be offended by that? Do you think he still likes me? I thought it was innocent fun, but he REALLY didn't like that.
I guess in a way I feel like a bit of a dick because his a perfect match for me, and I feel like I've always hurt him..I broke up with him, took his virginity, broke up with him again, moved on, and now I've hurt him again. I think I should just end everything with him, block, move on, but something always pulls us back together. I honestly didn't mean to hurt his feelings, but I guess thats what I did.