advice on approaching friend

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by strangezoo, May 7, 2008.

  1. strangezoo

    strangezoo New Member

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    A mutual friend and i have been hanging out together a lot more lately and i realized that i am attracted to him and i think he likes me too. He says a lot of things to me that could be taken many ways, i got some pot for him one day and he told me "i dont know how to thank you, i would do anything" or i got him a beer one night and he responded "what do you want me to do for you?" When we go out i catch looking at me a lot and he always looks away when i catch him. He has a girlfriend and i've heard rumors that he is bi, but i dont know how to approach him without making things awkward between us. any advice?
     
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    id just flirt a lot more with him...straight guys like attention from gay guys...a friend of mine (basically same situation) but im all over him...lol...he says he loves it even tough hes straight because he thinks i have great taste in everything.
     
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    u smoke pot too? pot buddies are the best. start that way..

    the best way to start is start hanging together but alone. ie, invite him over to your house to spend the night and smoke pot or something.. flip the tv to a porn channel while you, him or both of you are high.

    how long have you known him? the key is hanging out alone.. just you and him.

    i wonder if we have the same friend? my bestfriend is just like that. he lets me be all up on him and he's str8. he tells me all the time that he looks up to me.. he's the type of friend that probably wouldn't mind being bi himself i think. i love when he hugs me because it's with all his love. yet he's str8! if only the whole world was like this.
     
  4. B_The Greek Dude

    B_The Greek Dude New Member

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    Next time the situation comes up, and he asks what to do to thank you, just say:

    Share the laugh and watch his reaction; if he looks at all embarassed, or if he stammers? he's into you. If he gets grossed out? He's not, and you should never flirt with him/make a suggestive remark again. Just continue to pay attention to his body language from now on, though.
     
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    Hah, yeah, porn, the way to a friend's cock. Sounds like you already have the relationship and now want the sex. If you guys hang out alone at your place and you tell him you've got this great porn vid off the net or something that he's gotta see, he might go for it and ask you to show it to him. He's bound to get horny watching it. And can say something like, "Man, this vid makes me so horny. If I was alone I know what I'd be doing now." He'll know what that means, and maybe it opens the door to you guys jacking off or something for starters, if that's what you want.
     
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