Advice on Controlling my twink

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I have a young cute blonde lad that is playing up.
He used to be submissive but is getting mouthy.
He's slim, fit, cute and has a big dick.
He has started to test me.
As I'm fond of him I think I'm being abit to easy on him.
Any suggestions welcome and I'm open to bringing a guy in to bring him back in line and show him that he needs to respect me.
I've tried many things but think I need to be harsher.
We are in the UK.
 
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Oh for real. Where should I post it?
 

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I tend to like my fellows to be submissive.. but I get majorly turned on when I am submissive to younger guys …— especially one that like to be dominant spank me for being a bad .. and use belts or whatever to whip my ass n back with. Make it hurt.. if he wants me to bleed the it’s up to him dominant ass to make this sun do so
 

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Guys with big dicks are usually way cockier than most. It is probably destiny that your twink ends up being this way and it might be a good idea to consider another relationship. Just saying.

Best of luck in however you proceed.
 

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First I'm curious: why do you want to control your twink? To be honest, this doesn't sound like a very healthy thing to be looking for in a relationship. You might think about ways that you could change that instead: ask yourself why you are looking for this, and try to be more respectful of others' opinions and decisions.

But to get back to your question I am guessing that your guy is showing you his real character now that you've been together for a while and getting more comfortable with each other. So if you're not okay with it, perhaps it's best to talk about it and if that doesn't help, just move on because you're not getting what you want from the relationship.
 

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If he doesn't want to be controlled then you shouldn't try to control him. You didn't say anything that suggested that you've thought about what he wants, so it sounds like you're approaching this in entirely the wrong way.
 

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Hummm. Your title to the post was worrisome, my friend. If I were to guess, you posted in the wrong forum. If not… I hope that twink has wings and can get off the ground quickly, and far away…
 

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I have a young cute blonde lad that is playing up.
He used to be submissive but is getting mouthy.
He's slim, fit, cute and has a big dick.
He has started to test me.
As I'm fond of him I think I'm being abit to easy on him.
Any suggestions welcome and I'm open to bringing a guy in to bring him back in line and show him that he needs to respect me.
I've tried many things but think I need to be harsher.
We are in the UK.
Unless you are in a Master/Slave relationship, you can't control him.

If you try to force it on him, you will lose him.

Not knowing either of your ages, I would guess that he is 18 - 25 while you are possible 35 +.

Do both of yourselves a favor, end the relationship.

You come across as a narcissistic, controlling douche, who is looking for "advice," but it's really "permission" to do something horrible to someone for the simple reason that they don't follow your every order. The way you describe him physically reeks of jealousy.

You describe his attitude as someone who is mouthy. Maybe he's that way because he is starting to realize just how toxic you really are. And not worthy of his attention.

Please, enlighten us, what things have you tried to control him and what are the harsher ways you are thinking of?

We're all waiting <munches popcorn>

Sklar
 
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Unless you are in a Master/Slave relationship, you can't control him.

You come across as a narcissistic, controlling douche, who is looking for "advice," but it's really "permission" to do something horrible to someone for the simple reason that they don't follow your every order. The way you describe him physically reeks of jealousy.
Bingo!
 
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