Advice On Meeting A Man

BarebottomTX

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So I need some advice. I’m looking for a partner I can take a lot of first steps with. Trust me when I say I know what I want and I’m committed on finding it.

My problem is how? Where does an older chub bottom bear find someone? I have checked out a couple of apps like Grindr and Adam4Adam and there isn’t much in my age range that I find interesting. If I were 20+ years younger I’d probably be set. What I find are some flakes, creeps, and kids wanting a quickie.

I would welcome any advice etc.
 

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I’m really not into the bar scene, being in a smaller city in Texas most bars aren’t a place to advertise either. I’m looking for something more than a hookup.
Your location shows Texarkana... I've stopped thru there years ago. And it seemed VERY 'conservative' (I put quotes due to the changes in what conservative is now). Has the area changed over the years? That might be a tough hump to get over...
 

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Your location shows Texarkana... I've stopped thru there years ago. And it seemed VERY 'conservative' (I put quotes due to the changes in what conservative is now). Has the area changed over the years? That might be a tough hump to get over...
I can’t say much has changed. There are some communities that are probably more accepting now. One example is the art community. That said it is still very conservative, close minded, and stereotypical for this part of the US. The single gay bar from what I know about it is diverse, but popular with the younger crowds. I’m not really into the bar scene. I don’t see myself finding the kind of guy I’m looking for that way.
 
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