I've had my PA for a couple of years now and through stretching have recently increased the gauges of my jewelry up to a 1 gauge tribal dream ring. I have backed off from that size however and normally wear a 2 gauge circular dumbbell. My problem is that when I have my jewelry in for several days my dick develops a stiff lip around the PA opening. After leaving the jewelry out for a few days the hole will become soft again. I would like to hear from anyone else who has experience this and what if any strategies I might use to be able to leave my jewelry in continuously without developing the hard rim.