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I used to suck my friend(married with kids) and that went on for a few years. Things stopped about 5/6 years ago(he said he didn't need it). We are also neighbors. So, 2 days ago he asks me over to help with something(very common). I see him in bed playing on his phone(very common). I decide to lay next to him(I was super sleepy) and put my arm around his chest. He just says, "oh that gay thing has not gone away?", I respond "Nope" and for a few seconds I pass my hand over his dick before putting it back on his chest. He says "go for it", I undo his belt and he takes off his pants. While I was sucking him, I start playing with his hole and stick one of my fingers. He said "that hurts" and a few minutes later he's was done. I go back and lay next to him. In the past he would always put his pants back up, right after. This time he didn't and 5 minutes later I go down and start again. He just says "you are wasting your time, it will not get up." Less than a minute later he was super hard(more than before). I was playing with his hole when I asked if I could lick it. He says "ok". He then says to take mine out(never happened before). Then I start rubbing my dick around his hole. He says "don't put it in" and I replied "I'm not". When I start making attempts to get it in. He didn't stop me, so I kept putting spit on my dick to see if that helped. Since that was not working, I asked him to lift his back to place a pillow under, to get a better angle. Later I placed his legs over my shoulders and kept trying. After 10-15 minutes, I gave up and went back to sucking him. After he was done he said "Happy Valentines". I go back to my apt. An hour or two later he calls and asks if I was angry. I said "no" and we start talking about random stuff.

The following day we act like nothing happened. (I had to jerkoff three times as I couldn't stop thinking about fucking him)

Today, I go into his place (he was in bed, playing on his phone). Lay next to him, and a minute later he gets up and says he has to get ready for work. We talked for an hour and then he leaves. Later he brings food(normal thing) and we talk a bit more. He says he's sleepy and I go back to my apt.

Not sure how or what to do. I know that if I bring up the "I want to fuck you", he will get weirded out. If I keep insisting on doing something, he will get weirded out and distance himself(it has happened before). If I leave it up to him, nothing will happen(he has never made the first move).

What do you guys recommend?

**pardon my grammar**
 

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Just keep it slow. Get him used to your finger while you're blowing him, work up to two fingers. Do that a few times before trying your dick again.
Well, today I made kinda of a bad choice but hopefully is nothing. After I got back from running errands, I jump to his place and sit next to him. I don't say much and he says "you are horny and want to suck dick? Ha!." I replied "not really"(to sucking). I explained that i spent all day yesterday super hard, thinking about getting my dick inside of him and had to jerk off 4 times. He laughed and said his hole kinda hurts. I take off his pants and put his dick in my mouth. He said he didn't feel like doing anything to his hole(only had like 30 mis). I take out my dick and start rubbing it against his. He said that it was nasty but i kept going. I moved him to the edge of his bed and placed his legs over my shoulders. Put some lube and start rubbing my dick around his hole. I kept going back and forth between playing with our dicks and his hole. I then pushed a little and he jumps out of the bed. Don't remember what he said, so I went back to blowing him. After he was done, I asked to give me a hand but refused. I put my pants back on and came back to my place.

I'm excited that it happened again but just a little worried that i scared him due to my impatience.
 

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You are going to piss him off! Just blow him and stroke yourself, then rim him and then when he is getting really turned on try a little bit of finger or do some crack fucking without trying to 'get it in", he will want it at some point and you will know when that is hopefully. Could take weeks or months.
 
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You seem intent on killing the goose that lays the golden eggs.

He's not into being fucked but he's going along with it to get BJs and probably when he's horny enough he'll play along.

Not interested in finishing you after he cums is simply because you've drained his sex brain and the logic brain is back in the driver's seat.

Eventually when he figures out that the price for play is you fucking his butt, he'll dump you and find someone else.
 
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You are going to piss him off! Just blow him and stroke yourself, then rim him and then when he is getting really turned on try a little bit of finger or do some crack fucking without trying to 'get it in", he will want it at some point and you will know when that is hopefully. Could take weeks or months.
Got it! I just need to learn to be patient and think about something else.
 
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You seem intent on killing the goose that lays the golden eggs.

He's not into being fucked but he's going along with it to get BJs and probably when he's horny enough he'll play along.

Not interested in finishing you after he cums is simply because you've drained his sex brain and the logic brain is back in the driver's seat.

Eventually when he figures out that the price for play is you fucking his butt, he'll dump you and find someone else.
I now see what Im doing wrong and thanks for opening my eyes to the reality.
 

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so what happened nex?, did you get to fuck him?
I got into a similar situation a few years ago with a "straight" friend, he eventually ended up getting used to getting my dick inside him, if you get him to let you fuck him and he cums while doing it, he will probably want to keep on doing it, for most straight man its a very different and intense experience.
 

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so what happened nex?, did you get to fuck him?
I got into a similar situation a few years ago with a "straight" friend, he eventually ended up getting used to getting my dick inside him, if you get him to let you fuck him and he cums while doing it, he will probably want to keep on doing it, for most straight man its a very different and intense experience.
Unfortunately, nothing. Very likely, that was the last time. He had time today for anything but said no. So, i doubt it will happen at all. Time to move on again and he is moving away soon. Your story sounds hot and I'm jealous... lol
 
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