Advice On Taking An 8x6" Penis Anally

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get an actual and good water based lube vaseline just cause friction
when he pushes in you push out but over time he'll fall in
 

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As an experienced bottom who likes to go for hours, I would have to say that I totally agree with previous posts mentioning preparation. Basically what has been said above is correct, it's best to use a jelly dildo. Take your time. Best after you've douched your ass. Taking your time and GENTLY trying to put in 3/4 fingers whilst moving them around to get your sphincter a bit loosened is also a good idea. I like fingering myself using 2 fingers first, just to open up, and then move on to the dildo.

That way you make sure that you're a bit loose before you have sex with your partner. I prefer silicone based lubricants/gel though. In my experience water based lubricants kinda sting, both during and after sex. I find it quite uncomfortable. Also since I tend to want to do it for a long time, it often dries out. Only use vaseline if you really can't find anything else. Or for that matter if you really haven't got anything in the house, just use cooking/veggie oil. :p

Remember sex is about pleasure, not pain or discomfort (unless you're into S&M). Also, blood is never a good sign. If you see blood during or after sex, something went wrong. Either you got ripped or you have some kind of anal problem (fissures, hemmorroids, ripped mucous). So please take care when you see blood.
 

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I want to thank Petite for all the time and great information she has given to the anal sex issue, she has really helped my wife and I.

Oh, I appreciate that you said that! It took such a long time for me to figure out what would work for me that I felt that I should share what I learned so that it could help other people.

TheBF is grateful for all the time I've put into it, too. :biggrin1: