Advice please - my buddy's asked me for a threesome

[Gj816]

Ok, this might seem a bit tame to some, but one of my housemates has asked me if I would like to join him and his lady in a threeway. But guys, I am nervous - not that I don't fancy his girlfriend as she's gorgeous, and I'm not shy or anything, but I know from seeing him naked that my dick is a lot bigger than his, and what if that's awkward? Can this stuff sometimes ruin friendships?

As previously stated several times already, it can truly ruin a friendship. Having said that though, if your roommate is even remotely interested in you sexually (is bi) then you would need to discuss it with him.

I'm guessing you've both seen each other naked? Possibly even erect coming and going from the bathroom. Morning wood etc. I'd be asking him a ton of questions why, when, how he plans on doing this.

It could be that he'd want you to come in on them one night while he is fucking her. You'd need to know what kind of scenario he has in mind. You'd also want to know she is on board with it.

If you've never been in a three way before I would tread cautiously and take it very slow. It's not something that I'd jump into just for a chance to shag his gf. It could also be that he has plans on shagging you while you are shagging his gf. Or maybe the two of them want you to shag him while he's banging her pussy. There are a lot of things to consider, but unless and until you talk it over with your roommate you'll never know.

 

[849142]

I would imagine that things would go better with MFM if there were no existing ties with the F to either of the M’s. In the past, I have had 2 separate opportunities from 2 male co-workers to join in MFM with them and their ladies. One of these I declined. The other I accepted.

The one I declined was from a guy I had known for 15 years who asked me to join him and his wife. I knew they had had some troubles with their marriage and he admitted they were looking at MFM to maybe liven things up. I declined because I really wasn’t close enough with him for such intimate contact and saw that there was too much potential for disaster. Also, I was really not attracted to his wife.

The one I accepted was from a guy I had known for 10 years. I knew him much better than the first guy and we had had numerous sex chats. Also, we had worked out and showered together numerous times so we had already seen each other naked. The woman he was bringing was a younger lady who wanted some adventure and whose husband was deployed. Things went so well that we had 2 more encounters with her and later the guy and I shared 3 more ladies over the coming years.

 

[1139089]

Risky. I can be good or bad. You gotta think about it alot.

 

[Peter Brown II]

Ok, this might seem a bit tame to some, but one of my housemates has asked me if I would like to join him and his lady in a threeway. But guys, I am nervous - not that I don't fancy his girlfriend as she's gorgeous, and I'm not shy or anything, but I know from seeing him naked that my dick is a lot bigger than his, and what if that's awkward? Can this stuff sometimes ruin friendships?

I would try it.
Whats the size of your dick?
Why should it be akward if you have a bigger dick?

 

[GoingOnABoeing]

I would imagine that things would go better with MFM if there were no existing ties with the F to either of the M’s. In the past, I have had 2 separate opportunities from 2 male co-workers to join in MFM with them and their ladies. One of these I declined. The other I accepted.

The one I declined was from a guy I had known for 15 years who asked me to join him and his wife. I knew they had had some troubles with their marriage and he admitted they were looking at MFM to maybe liven things up. I declined because I really wasn’t close enough with him for such intimate contact and saw that there was too much potential for disaster. Also, I was really not attracted to his wife.

The one I accepted was from a guy I had known for 10 years. I knew him much better than the first guy and we had had numerous sex chats. Also, we had worked out and showered together numerous times so we had already seen each other naked. The woman he was bringing was a younger lady who wanted some adventure and whose husband was deployed. Things went so well that we had 2 more encounters with her and later the guy and I shared 3 more ladies over the coming years.

Agreed. Sharing a random lady with your buddy is a lot safer. No romantic feelings are involved..