Ok, so there's this guy I like. Defining 'like' would be...I'm totally obsessed with him! I don't want to get into the details of my obsession because it will look creepy, but you know how it is... A bit of background won't do any harm I guess. I've known him for roughly 5 years. However for the first three we talked rarely. It wasn't until the fourth year that we became friends. We talked alot, had a laugh, we could basicly tell eachother everthing, I had no attraction to him at all. The 5th year, I haven't seen him in about 2 months. Another friend shows me a picture of him and he changed alot. It wasn't until then I thought he was attractive. So I start hanging around with him again, everything is the same as before, having a laugh etc. I really don't know when it happened but I just fell in love with him. This is when things started getting awkward. I feel like I can't open up to him as much anymore, I feel VERY uncomfortable when we're alone and conversation is pretty difficult. I still see him as a very good friend, best even, but I think we are still growing apart. I really want to tell him how I feel but I'm afraid of it making things even more awkward or making him feel so uncomfortable he won't want to be around me. I've heard things that lead me to believe that he is bisexual. I even asked him about it, although he dismissed it, I still couldn't help think he was, I mean most of his actions lead me and others to think so. Another thing that sucks is he has a girlfriend, although thing are pretty rocky at the moment, he even told me he has considered breaking up with her. I really need some advice on whether I should tell him or not, I think I should but when i'm talking to him I can't bring myself to say it. Should I say?