Today I am having a 4th date with a guy I really like. He's uncut. I've seen his cock and he has a lot of foreskin (maybe a small cock) that covers his head when he's erect. I pulled back the skin to reveal the head. I saw what looked like a bunch of precum as well as some white stuff around the edge of the head, which I assume is smegma. I don't want to suck a cock that is preloaded with smegma or an hour's worth of precum (I like my precum FRESH!). How should I handle this? Should I say something? What should I say? I don't want to hurt his feelings. I really like the guy a lot and I don't want this to get in the way of a possible great relationship. Oh, one other thing. His kissing leaves a lot to be desired. Let's just say he doesn't know how to kiss AT ALL. He thinks he is kissing but he is not, by any measure. Is it ok this early on for me to try to teach him how to kiss?