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Hi

i recently stumbled into the delightful situation that i woke up after drinking with my supposedly straight friend that he was sucking me off after i fell asleep after a night of heavy drinkiing, i dismissed it as curiosity and just let him "have his way", then it happened again couple off weeks later and i didnt dare confront him cause he kept mumbling about how i'd kill him if i ever found out

we have had a devils threesome couple of times before and i never noticed then he was interested in me, but this is new to me that he is interested in me, should i confront him or just let him work out his feelings,

and just to be clear im straight myself and i dont have any interest in him in anyway
 

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I think talking to him would be ideal but just be level headed with it and don't let the situation blow up and make it clear you are there as a friend to try to help him if he needs an ear about struggles with himself or what not.
 

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i recently stumbled into the delightful situation ......

of times before and i never noticed then he was interested in me, but this is new to me

and just to be clear im straight myself and i dont have any interest in him in anyway



so in saying that, what do you, want / expect to happen?
and how will you react to any possible further advances from him?
 

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Do what you want to. If he's you're real friend make an effort non-sexual to help him out with what ever it is that he is going through or discovering. I've had threesomes but not amongst confusion like that and that is how it should be. Especially between friends.
 

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i recently stumbled into the delightful situation that i woke up after drinking with my supposedly straight friend that he was sucking me off after i fell asleep after a night of heavy drinking,
If you woke up to find he was sucking you off, why didn't you stop him and confront the issue right then? You said, "just to be clear i'm straight myself and i don't have any interest in him in any way," so shouldn't you react to his behavior immediately?

i dismissed it as curiosity and just let him "have his way", then it happened again couple off weeks later and i didn't dare confront him cause he kept mumbling about how i'd kill him if i ever found out
You let it happen a second time and still didn't do anything about it? You didn't dare because he was mumbling how you'd kill him...c'mon, you're the one who decides about what happens next. Looks like you wanted him to "have his way."

should i confront him or just let him work out his feelings
It seems to me from the way things proceeded, you need to confront yourself about what happened, and what your deeper desires are.