Advice Wanted For Turning My Sucker Into A Cockslut

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Does anyone have tips on how to bring the inner cockslut out in a guy?
I'm married (to a woman) but I've been getting my cock sucked by this younger gay jock on the regular for about six months now. He's good at his job, but he's a little uptight. Kind of a pretty boy, which is awesome, but afraid to get a little nastier. My fantasy for getting sucked by other guys really involves using a cockslut though, getting a guy to beg for it, call himself a cockwhore, rub it all over his face, that kind of thing. I think he's got it in him, cause it's clear how much he loves the big D (9x6) and he knows this is just a situation where he sucks me off when I let him. He gets shy when I try to prompt him in that direction though. Before I just tell him directly what I want him to do, does anyone have any tips on how to make it happen a little more naturally, without having to give him instructions?
 

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My boyfriend Is totally a cockslut. I think things got nastier when we started to openly discuss about relationship and each other's fetishes. Thais kinda make us try each other fantasies, and eventually share them. I was not too much into violence stuff and other things, but seeing him getting really horny with those things always make me horny ass well. I would suggest you to start talking about this kind of things, and persuade him to try differrnt things
 
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Thanks for the advice.

My boyfriend Is totally a cockslut. I think things got nastier when we started to openly discuss about relationship and each other's fetishes. Thais kinda make us try each other fantasies, and eventually share them. I was not too much into violence stuff and other things, but seeing him getting really horny with those things always make me horny ass well. I would suggest you to start talking about this kind of things, and persuade him to try differrnt things
 

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Yes, there's consent and we've established a safe word. I do get a sense that he's into it. I also get a sense that he's self conscious about taking on a role, like a lot of people. That's why I'm asking for tips.

Is there any consent for power exchange?
Do you get a real sense, not a want it to be, that he might be open to and enjoy this acting you seek?

My sweetie was shy about asking what he wanted... at first. :)
 
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If he is shy, unsure, or a little conservative, then just take your time. "Persuading" is a bit more manipulative than gradually progressing. He is an eager participant, knows the rules of the exchange..just take it slowly, and allow him to get used to any next steps.

Are you verbal with him? Encourage him, tell him he is doing a good job, what feels better and what feels great. Stroke his head and make him feel like something he just did sent you almost over the edge. Hold him, gently, in place once in a while, and use your hips to push yourself in and out, but not for too long. Allow him to adjust to brief periods where you take control, and see if he starts to enjoy that. Stop when you feel he wants to stop, then encourage him again. Make him feel like a good boy.

It's all about gradually raising the bar, getting him comfortable, knowing his limits, lots of rewards and verbal/tactile encouragement, and letting him know how great he is. He'll start to get into it, or not, but the process is 2-way. He needs to trust and respect you, not feel like you are taking him someplace he doesn't want to be, no matter how many signs he gives that he is uncomfortable.

He wants to be there. You enjoy him as well. Don't rush it.
 
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Yes, there's consent and we've established a safe word. I do get a sense that he's into it. I also get a sense that he's self conscious about taking on a role, like a lot of people. That's why I'm asking for tips.
“A sense that he’s into it” is NOT consent.
 

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“A sense that he’s into it” is NOT consent.
I'm sorry that you misunderstood. I did not say that I assumed consent based on my "sense." I was responding directly to your two different questions:
Yes, there is consent for power exchange.
Yes, I do get a real sense that he might be open to and enjoy this acting you seek.
 
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I'm sorry that you misunderstood. I did not say that I assumed consent based on my "sense." I was responding directly to your two different questions:
Yes, there is consent for power exchange.
Yes, I do get a real sense that he might be open to and enjoy this acting you seek.
Gotcha.

Realize he has needs, too. Aftercare, for example, being valued as a human.
And enthusiasm can vary on different occasions.
I’ll happily please my Love. Sometimes, I make him enjoy it.

allowing your dude to have a range inspires virtuosity.