If you did a survey, I think you would find that most, but not all men who are in a relationship with a woman are with one who has a lower sex-drive and interest than the man. That has been my experience in general with 200+ women. Most of my male buddies would agree. I work it out with genuine expression of loving and being a good guy who she'd want to take care of, including sexually. If you really care about her, show her and be creative. It's part of our primal makeup. . . Just checked out your pics and man, she ought to be grateful for that awesome rod that you are sporting!