Hello, I'm not really sure how serious this forum is, but I was looking for some advice and thought this seemed like a good place to go. I'm twenty and have only had three sexual partners; I didn't realise that anything about my penis was odd until the first time I tried to put a condom on. It isn't really that long I don't think, it's just rather wide. Anyway, I've been with a girl now for four months who is absolutely lovely and far prettier than I should be able to achieve. I could really see our relationship going somewhere but she doesn't enjoy sex at all. I don't think there's anything wrong with my technique, she just finds it really uncomfortable. I've tried to use ridiculous amounts of lubricant etc. but she still says it's painful. I really don't want to lose her but I have no idea what to do. Any advice would be extremely welcome. Thank you.