Ok Here it goes... Im in the closet, and only 3 people actually know, 3 of my closest friends. I've started to really bond with one of them recently, spending alot of time with him and i think starting to grow feelings for him. Now a while ago when i told him i was gay he understood because he told me that when he was younger he thought he was gay and had a 'moment' with his best friend at the time but since then he's abit of a man slut. And says maybe im just curious because i havent been with anyone, i see his point but i know what i am. At times i think he is flirting or teasing me, because he will hug me (from behind), rub my leg, walk around shirtless, ask me to stay over and when both drunk kiss me. now apart of me wants to go along with all of these lil teases or acts of flirtation but the last thing i want to do is ruin what we have. I dont think ive had a friend who i am so open with and feel completely myself. But the fact that he has told me he once thought he was gay and has done 'something' with a guy before just makes me really want to go for it. *edit* Also to add to the complication he broke up with his girlfriend about 5 months ago who he was seriously in love with and still has feelings for who is also a mutual of mine. Advice? thoughts?