Ok yet another crappy thread by me Anyone have any advice on what a person can do who is in a GOOD solid male/female relationship, but finds himself dealing with the gay issue? I mean, my ration keeps changing daily. Some days I feel 100% gay, others 50/50. Most days I'm in between. I've never had sex with a male and doubt I ever will. I Would prefer to just be content staying married & having sex with the female spouse, but can't get the gay thoughts out of his head? Marital sex is good, masturbation is fine, porn is good, and those things are GOOD releases (!) but, is there something I've not thought of that does not involve cheating around? I know my wife would not be "ok" with it, and I just can't even bring myself to consider cheating. Surely this is a "thinking outside the box" issue - I just can't come up with anything that might help. Is there something in between gay sex and solid fidelity that really boils down to keeping the faith? Ideas?