I want to have gay sex but I'm nervous. I don't want anyone to fine out so how do I discreetly test out my gayness. I wanted to buy a butt plug to put in my ass to feel how it feels to have something in my ass. Also I have a gf so how do I discreetly fuck men and get fucked without her suspecting a thing. Need advice badly like asap..
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B_Elinvlad
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well you should never cheat on you present girlfriend. i mean that is like such a dick move. would you like it if she cheated on you because she wanted to know what a bigger dick might feel like?
So my advice would be, before you actually do anything with a guy... buy yourself a small vibrator just to get a feel of things. Then move one to something a bit bigger like a butt plug. experiment with gay porn so see if you really like it.
Experiment with yourself first and if you do decide to go the extra mile, please be honest with your girl and end it.
no one enjoys getting lied to, not even you.
Hope you find what makes you happy.
So my advice would be, before you actually do anything with a guy... buy yourself a small vibrator just to get a feel of things. Then move one to something a bit bigger like a butt plug. experiment with gay porn so see if you really like it.
Experiment with yourself first and if you do decide to go the extra mile, please be honest with your girl and end it.
no one enjoys getting lied to, not even you.
Hope you find what makes you happy.
B_Elinvlad
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that's a great idea. maybe you are not gay at all. there a tons of straight men who love anal stimulation.
I agree that cheating on your GF is a bad idea. On the other hand, no one wants to date, much less marry, a closet case. Sublimated same-sex desire leads to sexual frustration on both parties and is unhealthy.
Perhaps you should take a break from the relationship, experiment a little bit, and then make a decision.
Perhaps you should take a break from the relationship, experiment a little bit, and then make a decision.
I could use some advice too. Lately I've been obsessing about a 9" opportunity I have. Basically, I'm inexperienced but curious to try deepthroating, however I do gag easily. Though he says he's ok with it and is interested in helping me try it he doesn't seem very enthusiastic.
Ideally I would hope someone who is disease free, eager and a little assertive (not aggressive). My question is: Should I wait for a more ideal opportunity?
I have been practicing to try to reduce my sensitivity. Bananas break too easily so I've been using my fingers instead. I must admit that gagging seems to get me hard.
Ideally I would hope someone who is disease free, eager and a little assertive (not aggressive). My question is: Should I wait for a more ideal opportunity?
I have been practicing to try to reduce my sensitivity. Bananas break too easily so I've been using my fingers instead. I must admit that gagging seems to get me hard.
Mine went like this: When I was 19 I'd been living the straight life and had just split with my GF. I asked a gay friend at work if he'd...so we got drunk and sucked each others cocks. The next morning I was grossed out and decided I was straight. 2 years later I'd been living with my GF who hadn't let me fuck her in a year. I met a gorgeous blond HUNG stud and that night we went all the way. I felt terrible for cheating and broke up with my GF the next day. She didn't take it well and proceeded to stalk me, including trying to run me over with her car. When pressured for an explanation, I told her she'd driven me to it by not giving me any pussy. Family, pets...she left no stone unturned.
Don't cheat. If you're too embarrassed to buy a dildo, try a small cucumber.
Don't cheat. If you're too embarrassed to buy a dildo, try a small cucumber.
That sounds good! I like the idea of the strap-on. And don't forget the dildo! And why not discuss the problem with your gf? She has the right to know what's going on in your life and mind, and vice versa.
