1. TheLoneArtist

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    Love advice.

    I spent 5 years looking for my soulmate. We found each other about 4 years ago.

    I fucked up because I thought there was no way she would leave me.

    There is ALWAYS a way for someone to leave someone else... don't take your lover for granted.

    Don't be like me and waste 4 years of your life.

    I'm sorry. I've been drinking, so everyone can chalk this up to a drunken ramble... however, I do speak the truth.

    I could still be with her, if I had done things right. We would be married right now.

    SOB story, I know. But I had to get it off my chest.

    Thank you to anyone who took the time to read this dribble.
     
  2. crescendo69

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    Sorry for your loss. You may want to expound more on this later when you have calmed down. Don't do anything rash, ok?
     
  3. TheLoneArtist

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    Rash? If I was going to do something "rash", I would have done it already.

    I'm calm. Trust me.
     
  4. SpoiledPrincess

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    If she's your soulmate get her back, then make a better job of being with her next time.
     
  5. No_Strings

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    If you're soulmates, then you'll be together in the end, no matter what happens. If you're not together at the end then no matter how much you love(d) each other, you're not soulmates.

    Anyway, like SP said, go get her back. Good luck. :smile:
     
  6. Altairion

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    Stuff like this sucks dude. I don't know the background of everything that has happened, but just try to keep yourself busy. If you think you have a shot to make it work again with her, go after her. You'll always regret it if you don't.

    If you don't think there's a chance, just keep yourself busy for a while and over time things will get better. There will be good days and bad days, but just be strong and do what is best for you.
     
  7. hung

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    Your life will go on, although you may have to make some changes.

    Keep it stiff and enjoy life.

    You have too much to regret if you look back too much.
     
  8. SpoiledPrincess

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    Sometimes people think someone they cocked it up with was their soulmate simply because people are a little dramatic, they like to think of themselves as suffering from unrequited love.
     
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