Sorcerer said:
...Don't assume you haven't been with someone who is married. Chances are you have and they just didn't tell you...
One encounter that I was with, said something to me that led me to believe he was dating a girl, but there was no sex, and he was curious about a guy. I think I'd only been with 2 guys before him, and was curious for another one myself. We chatted forever, exchanged stats, pics, live video connections, and finally met. We messed around, then he felt guilty, disappeared for a few weeks, then a "hey, what's up", would pop up. We'd chat for a few days, then meet again. This happened a few times, until he told me that I just wasn't at all his type. OK, fine, but if that was the case, why could I make him cum faster and more times than he ever had with anyone else in a session? Why did he say that he would never be able to fuck me, because he would only play safe, and rubbers ALWAYS made him limp, yet, one day when he wanted to make his point, he rolled it on, he was as hard as steel, all the while telling me he didn't understand why he was so hard, and "watch, it's gonna go limp any second", as it just throbbed like it was going to burst? I asked why he kept coming back so many times, and chatting me up if I didn't turn him on, especially when he knew what I looked like and all of my stats, way before we ever met, and he just said he wasn't comfortable discussing it. (???) We kept chatting constantly, once in a while he'd hit on me some more, but mainly we just became friends. Finally, he told me he was thinking of divorcing his wife, because he met this hot guy that he was sort of dating. Um... WIFE??? Hot guy ends up being very hot, but a total loser. Later, he tells me about a really nice guy, but he's so not his type, then they start dating, he divorces, they move in together, and he tells me how great his 9-yr old daughter is taking it all. Da-dau-daughter???
Sorc is right. You never know what their situation at home is. Of course, the same goes for their health, and safety practices too.