Afraid of Big Cock -> Not Wet?

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  1. D_Renyson_Ripbottom

    D_Renyson_Ripbottom New Member

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    Can it happen that a girl is afraid that your big cock will be painful for her so that she doesn't get wet?
     
  2. D_Frederick Fuzzynuts

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    i would think so yes
     
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    Some chicks can be freaked by size for sure. They just require more attention to get em warmed up. Having a big dick is a blessing, knowing how to use it requires skill.
     
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    yes is my answer, definitely
     
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    i guess so but the "fear" of the cock is what makes me wet to begin with

    :biggrin1:
     
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    personally, I think that you should get a lady really wet before you go anywhere near her with your cock.

    that's why great foreplay rocks! :D
     
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    one of the most obvious, but least thought about reasons for a girl not getting wet is dehydration - especially after drinking.

    And, of course nervousness, which isn't the same as fear. Don't be afraid to get the lube out - just try and be discreet and classy with it, so she doesn't feel like a horse about to be artificially inseminated ! Lol. Always lick your fingers before you touch her and of course lick her pussy - if you know what you're doing, she'll be dripping wet in no time and your cock would slide straight in.
     
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    yes ive had this a couple of times and also a few no ways!
     
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    Most definately.
     
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    Had a few like that... Just rub them for a while - guide her mouth to your cock and continue to rub her clit and lips. Soon enough she should be a virtual fountain.
     
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    Lube up or eat her out first to make sure she is fully ready.
     
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    fuck her with your tongue first?
     
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    Absolutely - sometimes due to inexperience or uncertainty.
     
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    I think that a womans wetness can be the equivalent to a mans erection. If a woman isn't wet....she isn't aroused. At least not enough to be fucking. In some cases nerves can get in the way of getting an erection, right? I think it's the same for women who are nervous. You should look at the entire situation though; it may not be your cock she's nervous about. She might just be nervous about sex in general. Communication is the key.
     
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    Don't believe the myth that all a woman needs is tons of foreplay and she'll be wet in no time. Nor that your size intimidates her to utter dryness. That isn't always the case. Sometimes it's medical or psychological too!

    Case in point: That 'nervousness' can be a medical condition that exacerbates the situation. My wife has had a general fear of sex for years, a situation prompted by sexual offenses brought upon her before I met her. That fear of violation as well as a fear of discomfort from my size led to many unsuccessful nights, no matter how long the foreplay. Sometimes it is a 'mental blockage' that makes it almost impossible to self-lubricate.

    My wife was diagnosed with secondary vaginismus - which is an involuntary tightening of the vagina during attempted sexual intercourse. The dryness was a secondary result of her vaginismus, because she consciously feared the pain and unsuccessful sexual attempts. A sort of 'performance anxiety' on a woman's part.

    Some:
    1. counseling from a good therapist,
    2. vaginal dilators to 'teach her vagina' how to accept, enjoy, not feel ashamed, painful or 'exposed' with a penis on her own terms in the privacy of the bedroom while alone and
    3. some conjugated estrogen creams to increase her self lubrication alleviated it all after some time.

    Be patient - help her through things, ask how YOU can help and Good Luck!
     
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    Gee, guys...!!! I don't really know--but my once-upon-a-time wife had no trouble with it...!!! Probably it's same or similar as with inexperienced gay bottoms: need a lot of TLC in advance: time, patience, reassuring and comforting words, gentle foreplay with erotic tonguing/touching in order to build sexual excitement to the point that they're hot enough to take the...uh, plunge...? :confused:
     
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    hasn't happened to me yet. :p
     
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