Ok - So this hot chick in Chicago that i have been in touch with through mutual friends has seemed great. We exchanged pics. e-mail and text and talk on the phone almost everyday. We've even had phone sex. So it's not like we are complete strangers. She was visiting her parents this past weekend just an hour from my house. I thought we might get together, hang out, see what happened but it didn't work out. As busy as my weekend was, i would have taken the time to meet up with her. Well, it didn't happen. And here is why in her own words from an e-mail this morning: I would have liked to have met you finally this weekend. However, Im a bit nervous to get involved with someone who lives so far away. My life is complicated enough at the moment, and the thought of meeting you and falling for you, when you live 3 hours away is just not something I can handle at the moment. Im sure you feel the same way. What the FUCK is THIS about? Who DOESN'T meet someone b/c they are afriad they will like someone TOO much? So what - we couldn't meet and hang out for a couple of hours without it turning into some major thing? I've got to tell you - i am PISSED OFF. I think it's bull shit. So far 2 of my friends think she's trouble/has issues and leave well enough alone. What do you think?