After Orgasm

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by Holtor, Jan 6, 2008.

  1. Holtor

    Holtor New Member

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    Hi Ladies,

    After orgasm do you dry up down there? That seems to happen with my gf and I was wondering if that's normal?
     
  2. Melissa-Bird

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    Me? I wouldnt know, nobodys let me orgasm, or lasted till after to carry on after me.

    Well didnt i just help lots!

    :Thinkingof_:
     
  3. ManlyBanisters

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    Nope. Quite the opposite in fact.
     
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    My job is therefore done. *Flys off*
     
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    Ditto.
     
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    Same here...
     
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    This is a strange question. What would cause the abrupt evaporation of female body fluids after orgasm? I would think as long as a woman is turned on enough (and she would be at the point of orgasm) her Bartholin's glands responsible for her wetness would continue to secrete lubrication.

    (In the original post i put cowpers gland, i know thats on the male reproductive system, not the female, i meant bartholins.)
     
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    My wife doesn't "dry up" after her orgasm but she stops producing enough lubrication for continued penetration so we have to stop. Of course when she went through menopause that didn't help. She isn't in to pain and my girth has always been an issue.
     
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    No. I don't get dry, but often I get what Artful calls "crazy pussy" -- the muscles are very tightly contracting even after orgasm and grip his cock (or anything else we put in there) like mad.

    This involuntary tightening (which I also often get just before orgasm) is amazing -- stronger than anything I can achieve by squeezing my muscles on purpose.

    It settles down a few minutes after I come, usually.
     
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    Majority of the time i use lube so its there until i wash it off
     
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    I used to be like that, and I still am if it's been a few times in a short period of time. Now, I usually stay wet afterwards. I don't know why it was that way or why it would change.
     
  13. widenine

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    THIS IS A GREAT REPLY. iT BECAME A TOPIC OF GREAT DISCUSSION FOR ME AND SOME OF MY FRIENDS!

    Melissa... you sound like your partner(s) have owed you an orgasm. Some women feel that the men in their lives don't last long enough in the vagina to provide a vaginal orgasm. So.......... what's plan B?

    If you want to orgasm from "penil penetration" and your man can't hang, what are your options? Do you blame him for not being their when you need him? And do you scorn him for selfishly satisfying himself? Some say they get where they need to be, on their own, beforehand and let the guy do his thing to bring them "home".


    At any rate: Don't be a helpless victim is the general consensus.
    Melissa:;
    "Me? I wouldnt know, nobodys let me orgasm, or lasted till after to carry on after me." sounds really pathetic and less than proactive.

    Thanks for this reply.
     
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    I've never understood guys that are like that. Wheres the fun in it? All that wining and dining then bam, all over in a flash. Why bother.
    I like to make it last myself, lots of sensual teasing, make my partner cum as many times as possible.... thats exciting to me!
     
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    Yes it is rather shooting yourself in the foot when it comes to getting the chance for a repeat performance. Some people just don't get any pleasure from giving pleasure to others.
     
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    wow your a sexy little thing love the pics i wouldnt leave you in limbo id dive straight back in and make sure i finished the job :biggrin1:
     
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