Age difference in the bi/gay world and unwanted attention

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When I was 18, I was being fucked by a mature man in his 60s. Actually the only problem we really had, was that he wanted a romantic personal relationship and I was only interested in a physical carnal one. I even said to him, that I am totally comfortable to continue seeing him to hookup, but he said it was too hard on him as he had developed feelings for me. I respected that and moved on.
 
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When I was 18, I was being fucked by a mature man in his 60s. Actually the only problem we really had, was that he wanted a romantic personal relationship and I was only interested in a physical carnal one. I even said to him, that I am totally comfortable to continue seeing him to hookup, but he said it was too hard on him as he had developed feelings for me. I respected that and moved on.
He was very fortunate---a guy in his 60's fucking a young guy like you.
 
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I am in my later 50's and I would be willing to have a sexual encounter with an 18 or 19-year-old man or woman if I was attracted to them but would only want a relationship with someone closer to my own age, about 8 to 10 years older or up to 20 years younger than me. I know there are people that would look down on me for that, but as long as both people are of legal age and consent to it, I don't see a problem with any difference in age.

If the OP doesn't want to have sex with the younger man and has told him no, then the younger man should respect his wishes. If the younger man is mature enough to want to have sex with someone else, then he should be able to accept that not everyone he is interested in would be interested in him and be able to take no for an answer instead of continuing to try to talk him into it.
 
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He was very fortunate---a guy in his 60's fucking a young guy like you.
Thank you, thats a very sweet thing to say.

When it comes to MM sex, I have always trreated my fuckbuddy's as equals in terms of having sex with them. If the sex is mutually enjoyable and satisfying which it was, then I view both of us fortunate to have each other.

Ive never taken a fuckbuddy for granted or acted or thought I was better than them. I was very flattered that he hit on me and picked me up at the local pool. He definitely made me feel sexy and desired.
 
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Just on age difference and who has the power.

If anything I think my fuckbuddy has the power, even though he thinks I do.

Ive told him that the fact that all our time together during our hookups is focussed on getting him across the line so he can cum deep inside me, is probably a clear sign I am lucky and that he has the power. Once he has cummed and is recovering, I will just quickly rub one out so that I can enjoy his post orgasm bliss together while he spoons me.

Once he cums, he literally just collapses on top of me, totally spent and no energy. I think its cruel and unfair to expect him to help me cum as well. In any case, Im usually very close to it. It only takes me like a minute maximum to cum after he does. I will even occasionally if he has blown a big load inside me, to place my finger in my hole to get some of his cum and use as lube. Doing that while he is spooning me and giving me kisses in a spooned position,is all the fuel I need to get me over the line.
 
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Honestly…, age is just a number. If he looks and acts older, not sure why it would bother you that he’s 18… the only downside to dating a younger lover is connecting with them mentally and their mindset in general. If he behaves older, that would remove that downside to me. Most 18y old I can’t connect mentally with.

Now. I’m 48… do you think I’m too old for you? I wouldn’t hesitate to date a 32y old.

If you’re attracted to him, why not see where it might lead?
 
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Honestly…, age is just a number. If he looks and acts older, not sure why it would bother you that he’s 18… the only downside to dating a younger lover is connecting with them mentally and their mindset in general. If he behaves older, that would remove that downside to me. Most 18y old I can’t connect mentally with.

Now. I’m 48… do you think I’m too old for you? I wouldn’t hesitate to date a 32y old.

If you’re attracted to him, why not see where it might lead?
I agree. Im dating (ok, fucking) a hot 20 year old chick. And yes, her maturity level is on par with a 30 year old.
 
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I agree. Im dating (ok, fucking) a hot 20 year old chick. And yes, her maturity level is on par with a 30 year old.
So… after you said this… I think I’ll be more specific with my answer.

Dating. They have to be mature mentally.

But I’m pretty sure…. If an 18y old man hit on me….. I’d probably let him do whatever he wanted to me that night…
 

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Honestly…, age is just a number. If he looks and acts older, not sure why it would bother you that he’s 18… the only downside to dating a younger lover is connecting with them mentally and their mindset in general. If he behaves older, that would remove that downside to me. Most 18y old I can’t connect mentally with.

Now. I’m 48… do you think I’m too old for you? I wouldn’t hesitate to date a 32y old.

If you’re attracted to him, why not see where it might lead?
The irony with my fuckbuddy being in his 60s and me in my 20s, is we connected on a personal and emotional level through sex.

While we are only interested in MM sex, there is no doubt a connection develops emotionally, especially if its ongoing, when you engage in anal sex, when one partner cums deep inside the other. Its only natural an emotional bond is developed. While we both only want enjoyable easy convenient meaningless sex, thats not to say there is not a connection we now have with each other despite the decades apart in age difference. Being "bred" by him has indirectly given us a mental connection, we are not lovers, just a couple of mates that get to together to satisfy the other.
 

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The irony with my fuckbuddy being in his 60s and me in my 20s, is we connected on a personal and emotional level through sex.

While we are only interested in MM sex, there is no doubt a connection develops emotionally, especially if its ongoing, when you engage in anal sex, when one partner cums deep inside the other. Its only natural an emotional bond is developed. While we both only want enjoyable easy convenient meaningless sex, thats not to say there is not a connection we now have with each other despite the decades apart in age difference. Being "bred" by him has indirectly given us a mental connection, we are not lovers, just a couple of mates that get to together to satisfy the other.
No question. Being bred by a man brings your connection to a whole new level. Incredibly intimate. He is a lucky man being in his 60’s and getting to top and breed a young man in his 20’s.
 
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18 would be waaay too young for me, I have turned down 22 year olds because the maturity gap felt a little wide when we grabbed a drink first.

That said I think I am atypical because I def have gay friends in their 30s who get lots of college twink dick
 
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No question. Being bred by a man brings your connection to a whole new level. Incredibly intimate. He is a lucky man being in his 60’s and getting to top and breed a young man in his 20’s.
Anal sex is one thing, where briefly in that moment, we become one and sync our body's and rhythms together. However, when he orgasms and cums deep inside me, that "breeding" does give us an intimate bonding experience. While sure our relationship is purely sexual physical one, there is no doubt, that the "breeding" process gives us a sense of emotional closeness to one another. Its enhanced by the fact that when he cums, he will often collapse on top of me or spoon me while we both take time out and sleep together to recover from the sexual high we both experience. My fuckbuddy's preference is to always cum inside me and so is mine as well, in many ways its a gift that he has given me, a piece of him that I get to keep, long after we have finished fucking.

I think we are both lucky, neither takes the other for granted, which probably goes a long way to us having good sex, feeling compatible and hooking up being drama and stress free. In terms of MM sex, he satisfies before, during and after and its an experience I appreciate, enjoy and feel lucky to have. Sexually his age has never been an issue, Im turned on by the whole package overall. If I am going to be dominated while taking up feminine submissive bottom role, I much prefer and would want only a fuckbuddy who is Alpha Dominant, Stronger, Larger and Taller than me. He is like a large hairy bear and I am like smooth slippery seal, so we compliment each other well. Neither of us have wanted or needed to venture outside our fuckbuddy arrangement.