Age Difference

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  1. D_Fluoridia Bidet

    D_Fluoridia Bidet New Member

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    Is it wrong to be attracted to older men, and wanting to date them if they are old enough to be your daddy or grandpa? For example I am 19 and I like men 25-55
    Is that wrong? It seems everytime I mention this I get called a "lolita"
     
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    I can see that if you're dating a 55 year old, but 25? That's not that big of a difference. I'm 27 and have gone out with girls around your age not even that long ago and it didn't seem that weird and we didn't get comments like that.

    Anyway, no it's not wrong. Other people will make judgments, think that you must have nothing in common, that he's taking advantage of you, that you must be a golddigger, that you're not mature enough to be with a man that much older than you, whatever... but screw them... it's legal. Do whatever the hell you want.

    I don't care much about age myself. Since I've started dating, I've seen girls who were anywhere from 14 to 41.
     
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    Am presently dating a 24 year old female. I am 46. We have a great time and the sex is amazing. We do have a very open relationship. Basically a no strings attached relationship.
     
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    As long as you are both completely ok with it and are good to each other, other people's opinion shouldn't matter, that's the beauty of love :D
     
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    Well 19 is no Lolita, so it's definitely not wrong. But is it unhealthy??? I really don't know
     
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    Nothing wrong with it. It could turn out to the best sex in your life ever.
     
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    I guess I was in my late 30's when I dated a 19 year old...we no longer date, but the sex was GREAT (for both of us) and even though she's 24 now and I'm in my 40's, we still have an agreement to get together whenever we feel the need. Fuck what other people think about an age difference--date who you like to date. You're the one who has to enjoy it.
     
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    There is nothing wrong with you desiring men older than your age. I would generalize and say that it is common with women your age -- it certainly was for me. I enjoyed the company of older men when I was around 19 years old. In hindsight it was probably the "father figure' thing but, I also learned a lot from them. They gave me a lot of confidence, taught me many things -- not only sexual things ;) but most of all they believed in me. .
    The greatest love of my love (so far) was 12 years older than me -- we eventually broke up because he thought I was too young for him -- and in hindsight I was, but I never regret the time that we spent together as he had a very profound impact on my life.

    I say enjoy the learning experiences that you have but realize that it is a step in your development.


    (55 years old is a bit old though) ewwwwwwwwwwwwww
     
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    28 years from now I'm going to think back and remember this and be offended.
     
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    Isn't life great for men.. we go old, gray, wrinkley and young beautiful girls get attracted to us... It must be hard being a women knowing that when u get to 40, the party is over!!!

    My g/f is 34.. i think perhaps soon i need to trade her in for a newer model.. like that HOT 24 yr old i was chatting to on Friday night!!

    I know, its not all about looks!!
     
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    If you said that around my wife you'd soon be signing up for the Large Boot Up The Ass Support Group.

    By the way, she's 41...
     

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    Crissy, you do what makes you happy. Some people will always have something to say about what others do, when they should be tending their own business.
     
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    You are one, brave gringo saying that around here, my friend!
     
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    yup.. and every other women over the age of 30.. man i'm going to have one painful ass with all those boots by tomorrow:mad:
     
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    If you are 19 and dating someone 25 or more years older, then people ARE likely to say that you are being taken advantage of by him. That's just the general consensus.

    I've spent most of my dating life dating older men. It always seemed to work out that way. Recently, to my disbelief, I was told that I was too young due to a 22 year age difference between him and me.

    When I was your age, I was definately dating men in their late 20's and late 30's.

    Some people aren't brave enough to date outside of their ethnic group, their age group, their gender or their socio-economic group. They go for the familiar and for comfort.

    Bravo and Brava to those of us who choose to follow our bliss and our hearts.



    Hugs and Kisses,

    Karmen
     
  17. D_Fluoridia Bidet

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    Yeah I always get mixed feelings from others, I think I am just going to go for it... there's actually 5 guys I like they are 32, 40, 28, 42, and 27
     
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    I've dated 8 years younger and 9 older.. It was always completely dependent on the person..

    Definitely met younger I wouldn't have the time for, and older that was very attracted to... and vise versa.. chemistry, intelligence, .. sensuality, either it works or it doesn't the rest is what you work out.


    2c..
     
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    As always, Karmen knows how to put things into perspective.

    As long as you know what you want, there's no reason for age to be an issue when choosing a partner (allthough 53 does seem a little too old). If you're compatible, I don't see a problem.
     
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