So, I'm new here, but I come with an honest question... that you guys seem like the people to help me. I started dating someone new, well, the other day, things got a little hot and heavy, one thing led to another, and he took it out his pants. Oh my God, it's huge... In most cases, I'm sure rejoicing should ensue... but we tried, and it hurt so bad, we had to stop like five minutes into it because I was practically crying; I made up an excuse as to why we had to stop, and gave him a hand job instead. So, uh... obviously, sex is very important to a relationship, and I'm not breaking up with someone just because 'it's too big', 'cause he's a really nice guy, and I'm not just in this for a quick fuck. So, you people with a big penis, have you ever been with a girl that's 'too small' or something? How exactly I can explain to him without hurting his self-esteem? Second, you guys got any tips on making sex less painful?