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I never give an answer like this

No, that's true - you're usually way meaner and a lot less direct.

There was nothing provocative in Endued's post.

Nothing provocative to you.

You used to be a bit funny.
But the humour's gone and, a large part of the time, only the viciousness remains.

If you choose to read me that way I can't do much about that, so it's a good job I don't care to, isn't it?
 

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No, that's true - you're usually way meaner and a lot less direct.

No, you're one of the most vicious posters.
Hick can get away with it somehow.
You can't.

Nothing provocative to you.

And nothing provocative to a reasonable reader. Here is Endued's post:

You know, this isn't the first time I've seen on here responses that to me really don't seem warranted. Could the default approach to a question like that not just be with the benefit of doubt? It seems unfair to me to assume that everyone should have the same default level of knowlege, and any question (like the one above) that falls below that level means that person needs to be insulted. It just leads to a unnecessary level of unpleasantness IMO.

A poster couldn't be more reasonable.

If you choose to read me that way I can't do much about that, so it's a good job I don't care to, isn't it?

So cheap.
A lot of people have noted a change in tone.
You used to seem sassy, sometimes a bit over-the-top sadistic, but for all that funny.
Now, it's just really pointless sadism so much of the time.
 

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A poster couldn't be more reasonable.
it was politely worded,
and patronisingly high horsey.

he didn't see how the post offended so many women.
well...he's a man. it offended every woman who has posted so far, and some of the men too. maybe, instead of telling us how naughty we are to be angry, he might instead wonder why we are.

yes, manly is harsh. she's like a vicious little chihuahua creature. i for one find it hysterically funny and quite endearing. there's usually a tongue in her cheek if you're smart enough to see it.
 

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Okay, let me clarify what I'm trying to talk about here, as I've read my original post back and I didn't explain myself fully. (This is why I always sucked so much at essays in school!)

My take on things is that a lot of people here seem to underestimate just how... unknowledgable guys can be about things. How much of what 'we' 'know' about the opposite sex/relationships/etc. can come from no more than locker room gossip/porn/bawdy comedians etc etc. And there isn't by default any malice or hatred towards women in that (it can certainly breed and foster it, obviously), it's just that that 'perceived wisdom' is taken as is.

Though sometimes someone may seem to you to be some knuckle-dragging, hateful, mysoginistic oaf, it honestly is not fair, or pleasant for anyone else to read, to assume (yes, you are assuming) that that's the only possibility and then dish out the responses as has been done in this thread.

All I'm asking is that you don't assume the worst.
 

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first on the list. stretched out from cheating.

what's wrong with just asking what caused it?

why instantly suggest the possiblity that she's a cheating bitch to thousands of internet stranger?

that's his wife he's talking about.

he started by suggesting the worst,
so, yes, i'm angered by that post.
 

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Okay, let me clarify what I'm trying to talk about here, as I've read my original post back and I didn't explain myself fully. (This is why I always sucked so much at essays in school!)

My take on things is that a lot of people here seem to underestimate just how... unknowledgable guys can be about things. How much of what 'we' 'know' about the opposite sex/relationships/etc. can come from no more than locker room gossip/porn/bawdy comedians etc etc. And there isn't by default any malice or hatred towards women in that (it can certainly breed and foster it, obviously), it's just that that 'perceived wisdom' is taken as is.

Though sometimes someone may seem to you to be some knuckle-dragging, hateful, mysoginistic oaf, it honestly is not fair, or pleasant for anyone else to read, to assume (yes, you are assuming) that that's the only possibility and then dish out the responses as has been done in this thread.

All I'm asking is that you don't assume the worst.

You're saying that guys who are really naive about women's anatomy aren't assholes ... they're just uninformed. And that was pretty clear, at least to me, in your earlier post, Endued. But you've made things just a bit clearer here. Tnx.

first on the list. stretched out from cheating.

what's wrong with just asking what caused it?

why instantly suggest the possiblity that she's a cheating bitch to thousands of internet stranger?

that's his wife he's talking about.

Endued didn't do any of this.
Do you think he was the original poster?
He wasn't.
So why all this venom when he just wants a sense of measure displayed?
 
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Do you think he was the original poster?
hence me writing,
''that's HIS wife''
instead of,
''that's YOUR wife''

maybe it would make things simpler for you if you tried not reading or responding to my posts. they seem to cause you undue confusion.
 

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first on the list. stretched out from cheating.

what's wrong with just asking what caused it?

why instantly suggest the possiblity that she's a cheating bitch to thousands of internet stranger?

that's his wife he's talking about.

he started by suggesting the worst,
so, yes, i'm angered by that post.

Because to him that might genuinely be the only explanation he can think of. Honestly dolfette, that scenario really is not far-fetched or any definite indication of any malicious thoughts. I mean, it isn't the most rational of thoughts, sure, but could you not have taken the fact he phrased it as a question as a genuine request for information to improve his relationship? There was absolutely no need for the hostility you showed him.

(And just in case I've given the wrong impression to anyone here, the fact that I mention this in the WI forum does not mean I think it's only women who have been unpleasant to people or it's only in WI, because it isn't, not by a long shot)
 

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no, it wasn't the only explanation,
because after that he voiced others.
but that was his first.

i find it vile.
every bit as vile as the posters who, when a guy says the latest BC has lowered his partner's sex drive, state that she is likely shagging around.

when a man is impotent, is the first reaction an accusation of cheating?

but there is a steady stream of accusations against women. every physical and emotional issue we have will be explained by many men as evidence that we're sluts and hoes. all our natural physical features are derided here.

what damage do you think this does to women? to how they feel about their place in society? how they're viewed by men?

there's a reason only the feistiest women remain regular posters on this site. i left for a year, most women leave for good.
tell me, if these kinds of posts were made with gays or blacks in mind, would you criticise the resulting anger?
 

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there's a reason only the feistiest women remain regular posters on this site. i left for a year, most women leave for good.


I don't post often because so many theads such as this end up as arguments. Or are just too out there to even respond to.... So I guess I will stick to lurking.
It is bothersome that he thought cheating would cause this, he should have asked a different way. But ladies, he is a guy. What do we really expect?
 

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no, it wasn't the only explanation,
because after that he voiced others.
but that was his first.

i find it vile.
every bit as vile as the posters who, when a guy says the latest BC has lowered his partner's sex drive, state that she is likely shagging around.

when a man is impotent, is the first reaction an accusation of cheating?

but there is a steady stream of accusations against women. every physical and emotional issue we have will be explained by many men as evidence that we're sluts and hoes. all our natural physical features are derided here.

what damage do you think this does to women? to how they feel about their place in society? how they're viewed by men?

there's a reason only the feistiest women remain regular posters on this site. i left for a year, most women leave for good.
tell me, if these kinds of posts were made with gays or blacks in mind, would you criticise the resulting anger?

Sorry, but this post really sums up what I'm talking about. You're looking at other examples of unfairness in the world/on the forum and then making presumptions. You just seem reluctant to separate the indivdual from what you see as the average person, and that just isn't fair.

TBH I'm not in a position to say as to why any woman would or wouldn't stay around. Well, I'm aware there are some real dickheads here, but that's as far as I can go. And as for that last bit, I wouldn't be any more presumptuous about the poser of an ignorant question about any other group.
 

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I don't post often because so many theads such as this end up as arguments. Or are just too out there to even respond to.... So I guess I will stick to lurking.
It is bothersome that he thought cheating would cause this, he should have asked a different way. But ladies, he is a guy. What do we really expect?

Your bigotry is repugnant in the extreme. If you came out of lurking for this reason, your work is done and you can fuck off.
 

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no, you assume i'm not separating him from the masses.
i found his post offencive both in and of itself, and as part of the drip drip drip feed of such horse tripe that gets posted here.

his post in itself offended every single woman who has so far posted in this thread. what does that tell you?
it tells you that we're all terribly silly and irrational.