12midnight: Howdy... Forgive me if this has been discussed before, but I'm new here and I'm still getting familiar with everything....... My situation is this: Whenever I put on a condom -- or attempt to put one on -- it's so much of a hassle. See, the size of my cockhead is a little disproportionate to my shaft, and it's difficult getting it over the flare. With all the work it takes to get the condom on (which fits everywhere but the head), I usually end up softening up. If the condom manages to stay on and I get hard again, I'm stuck with air pockets between the latex and the ridge between my shaft and head. I don't know why, but that air pocket is so damned annoying to me during sex that it's all I can focus on and I end up losing my erection. I'd rather not bareback, so I'm desperate in finding a condom that fits my head and shaft snugly. Otherwise it's strictly oral and manual sex for me. It also doesn't help that my cockhead feels so constricted! Anyone have any suggestions? ???