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All Talk, Or Constant Action?

Discussion in 'Ask a Man' started by mplsingleguy, Jun 7, 2019.

  1. mplsingleguy

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    This is a question for *everyone*...

    As you go thru your day, are you "always" looking for opportunity to sow your seed, or to get some sexual pleasure in some form?

    I know studies show that men think of sex constantly--- like every 8 seconds--- but would you say that you are so switched on that you are transmitting to others that you would be open to action right away?

    Some folks will just practice their flirtation, or maybe just keep their eyes and ears open for future opportunities near them, or maybe actively toss out little signs, like a crotch grab, extended eye contact, or a social queue like buying a beer for someone... depending on if they are available, taken, or are in an open arrangement.

    I guess im thinking that most married folks would say that they are saving any action for their mate, and maybe some easy flirtation to stay practiced with socially interacting with men or women you arent married to. Maybe you go thru the day subverting that sex drive to charge your batteries for the next opportunity to knock boots with your chosen one?

    OR Are you looking... Constantly. Like your balls are holding a love potion that needs to be emptied ASAP all day nonstop before it rolls back as poison on the owner?

    If sex drive and hormone levels meet at the place of action, shaped by how we have been raised by parents, and/or socialized by our chosen community as is deemed appropriate. And this changes as we move through life... do you use masturbation as a pressure release to regulate the urge to merge with others- and then merge as much as possible? Are you actively looking all day like its your job to find a place to nut?

    Our 'lizard brain' is confined to the back recesses of gray matter, and while it rides in the background it doesn't define the day to day activities- or does it? Do you play out your mental sex game at that lowest level, or mid-range, or at the operating level?

    Asked another way, if you consider yourself an obsessed giant walking hormone, are you constantly on the make in attempt to get it in (or to get something put in) ? How aware are you of others who share that same frequency?

    Do you see each day as a search for genitalia to connect with, either your own, or a regular partner, or as many unique and diverse or all shapes and sizes? Or do you go at measured pace, and share an occasional romp with a partner if you get in a certain mood?

    Maybe guys on LPSG are different than others in the greater community, or maybe we are just like everyone else. The question is, what does that actually look like in your life?
     
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    Seems like the older I get the hornier I get. I enjoy sex so much am I not inhibited as much as I use to be when I was younger. I enjoy looking an feeling horny.
     
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    I am constantly working a list of recent and former partners by text and phone especially my "harem" of regulars. I stay in touch daily with them so they know I'm interested in meeting again soon. I have a date set for this afternoon and another for tonight.

    Those I haven't seen in a long time get texted a couple times a week just so they know I'm still thinking about them. Most reply but teasing them into meeting again is more difficult despite regular nibbles of interest. Lots of text flirting happens with some in this group. They like the contact but meet ups are fewer and farther between.

    My Saturday & Sunday regulars have confirmed. Still trying to reel in a couple others. I'm constantly thinking about who's next.

    Then there are the last minute types who text when it's right for them wondering if I can meet.
     
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    I go in phases where I am thinking of dick, balls, ass, tits and pussy 24/7. I do not always like it.
     
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    It goes in phases. Probably linked to my gym routine a bit, when I cut I’m much less horny (but look better. Argh)

    ‘Off’ times I’m happy to hook up or have fun with my boyf (open) a few times a week. ‘On’ times I can’t stop thinking a getting my dick wet and end up doing crazy stuff like leaving work “for lunch” to bury my cock in some twink across the street.

    Generally it gets more and more intense until I start missing out on other things (like sleep) and slut shame myself back to reality. Last summer this happened when I was late for a date (drinks only) with a cute Chinese guy because of my third hookup of the day. And of course he had a lovely smile and smooth skin and a round ass.. 30 min later I was inside him thinking, “fuck, you can’t help yourself.”

    After days like that I always force a dry spell...
     
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    Sadly I work work 8 to 10 hours a day. When I work I try to keep my thoughts professional. YOU never know when you need to walk past someone, or stand to present an idea on the screen. Second I think that women can pick up on constant pervy thoughts. Thoughts though in ones mind, can cause the eyes to fixate where they are not needed; and that can inspire mister boner
     
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    I think of my partner a few times a day when I have a break from my hectic pace at work, but I don’t think of him in necessarily a sexual context. I might just send a “thinking of you text”, but I just don’t think about sex all the time. I consider myself pretty well rounded and I’m highly sexual and passionate in bed, but it just doesn’t run my life. I notice that I do bring my partner up in conversations sometimes, such as today. Someone at work asked me for a referral to a doctor in my partner’s speciality . I asked if she wanted to see my partner and she declined because she knows us socially. So I offered to get a good referral from my partner. But that it is just one example of where he comes to mind, in a totally non sexual way. To me, it seems that if you spend a huge amount of your time thinking about sex, you need more interests in your life and think about volunteering some of that excess time to help someone or be with friends and family. I don’t mean to criticize any posters; it is just that 24/7 sex on my mind seems like a life out of balance, at least for me. I guess it works for some, though.
     
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    My sex drive is essentially dead..

    yes my hormonal are way out of balance but the doctor says it's "fine"

    I guess a T level of 270 is pretty normal.. that might be normal for a 90 year old..

    in the last 5 months I gained a lot of fat and lost quite a bit on muscle mass (a lot) even going as far as losing quite a bit of hair as well.. not normal hair loss type since the happens very slowly over years..
     
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    This is awesome to read! Some guys really have a lot of freedom in their daily lives to pursue hedonistic pleasure.
     
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    64 years old and think about sex EVERYDAY! Married and have sex 3 to 4 times a week but very vanilla. Look at porn everyday and have lots of kinks or fetishes unfullfilled. Would love to meet someone male or female with the same thoughts/urges. Cannot imagine what it would be like to try mine and theirs out on a regular basis.
     
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    I would say it is in my subtext....meaning my high-level life works like normal, but i'm always on the prowl on some primal level. It's impossible (it seems) for a woman to walk by without a glance. And I think most men are like this, I 've seen older men (older than me)--checking out woman....I guess it is an appreciation that does not go away with age.
     
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