All this "daddy" shit in porn now, what does it do for you as a viewer?

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I really can't stand it anymore. I don't watch porn really at all anymore and when I try to just see what's out there, its daddy this and daddy that and cum for daddy and I want daddy's cum and am I daddy's good girl or bad girl for daddy and its fucking annoying as shit. I mean is that the porn norm now, the daddy fetish? Its an instant turn off for me. I don't know why, it just doesn't seem sexy or erotic at all. Hell I can't even consider it slutty.

Is this what porn has come to? I know its not pervasive but its pretty fucking common maybe every other scene the girl is calling the dude her daddy.

Is this a huge turn on for men? Most men? Men with children? Men with daughters? Men who wish they had children? Men who have wives that aren't slutty enough for them, or submissive enough? Is it a submission fetish/fantasy? Is it a domination kind of thing?

Help me I am curious to know what this phenomenon is all about and is it at the heart of the male viewer or just a way to make porn more gonzo-mainstream.
 
10 or so years ago i hooked up with this chick that was all about the daddy thing and it was just weird, i fucked her once and she was a stone cold knock out but the only time she wasn't saying daddy this or daddy that is when my cock was in her mouth
 
Yeah I agree, I think it's a pretty dumb thing that's emerged. Particularly when some wishy-washy whiny guy is saying "take daddy's dick" or some stupid shit like that, it is laughable and breaks the mood.

By contrast, I'm bilingual and it's different in Spanish. In real life or even in porn, we totally use "papi" and "mami" and it's not a turn-off, it's just a way to address the other person and it has none of the power dynamics that are packed away into the English use of it.
 
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I really can't stand it anymore. I don't watch porn really at all anymore and when I try to just see what's out there, its daddy this and daddy that and cum for daddy and I want daddy's cum and am I daddy's good girl or bad girl for daddy and its fucking annoying as shit. I mean is that the porn norm now, the daddy fetish? Its an instant turn off for me. I don't know why, it just doesn't seem sexy or erotic at all. Hell I can't even consider it slutty.

Is this what porn has come to? I know its not pervasive but its pretty fucking common maybe every other scene the girl is calling the dude her daddy.

Is this a huge turn on for men? Most men? Men with children? Men with daughters? Men who wish they had children? Men who have wives that aren't slutty enough for them, or submissive enough? Is it a submission fetish/fantasy? Is it a domination kind of thing?

Help me I am curious to know what this phenomenon is all about and is it at the heart of the male viewer or just a way to make porn more gonzo-mainstream.
Ages ago i decided that porn will be mute and I skip videos with disgusting titles.
 
I really can't stand it anymore. I don't watch porn really at all anymore and when I try to just see what's out there, its daddy this and daddy that and cum for daddy and I want daddy's cum and am I daddy's good girl or bad girl for daddy and its fucking annoying as shit. I mean is that the porn norm now, the daddy fetish? Its an instant turn off for me. I don't know why, it just doesn't seem sexy or erotic at all. Hell I can't even consider it slutty.

Is this what porn has come to? I know its not pervasive but its pretty fucking common maybe every other scene the girl is calling the dude her daddy.

Is this a huge turn on for men? Most men? Men with children? Men with daughters? Men who wish they had children? Men who have wives that aren't slutty enough for them, or submissive enough? Is it a submission fetish/fantasy? Is it a domination kind of thing?

Help me I am curious to know what this phenomenon is all about and is it at the heart of the male viewer or just a way to make porn more gonzo-mainstream.
As a man ( a daddy, ugggghhh) I have kids and can’t stand it either, it instantly says ‘incest’ and ‘pedofile’ nobody has ever called me daddy in a sexual way, When it comes to gay (silver) daddy, that’s another thing I guess, I think it can work for men
 
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10 or so years ago i hooked up with this chick that was all about the daddy thing and it was just weird, i fucked her once and she was a stone cold knock out but the only time she wasn't saying daddy this or daddy that is when my cock was in her mouth
:joy::grinning: what a double relief that must have been
 
10 or so years ago i hooked up with this chick that was all about the daddy thing and it was just weird, i fucked her once and she was a stone cold knock out but the only time she wasn't saying daddy this or daddy that is when my cock was in her mouth
Damn too bad she was so hot, must've sucked having all that dumb daddy shit coming out of her to ruin the vibe. Yah if I was hooking up with chicks and they called me daddy I'd have to tell them to not do that again and if I lost my boner it was her fault lol and way to shut her up, cock down the throat that'll teach her good!!! ;)
 
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IMO it's just a sex talk fetish. Some like it, some don't, and like all fetish porn it's often overused to the point of absurdity.

That said almost everyone I've fucked has called me daddy at some point. In my experience use of terms like daddy/momma/baby during sex have nothing to do with incest or incest fantasy. They're just romantic terms of endearment.
 
Help me I am curious to know what this phenomenon is all about and is it at the heart of the male viewer or just a way to make porn more gonzo-mainstream.
It's literally made it's way to our US politics as a term for someone "strong". 🤦‍♂️
 
IMO it's just a sex talk fetish. Some like it, some don't, and like all fetish porn it's often overused to the point of absurdity.

That said almost everyone I've fucked has called me daddy at some point. In my experience use of terms like daddy/momma/baby during sex have nothing to do with incest or incest fantasy. They're just romantic terms of endearment.
Yah I call my wife "baby" but its the endearing use of the term, not like "infant" baby way of using it, and she calls me "baby" too. But "mama" no I've never said that to her, because she'd be like "dude I'm not your mom!" and she's never ever called me "daddy" in any context. I think mama/daddy can be used endearingly but it seems to mostly be used by women/girls who have daddy issues and want to dress up like little kids and have an older man treat them like a "daughter" or "daddy's little girl" and while that's not expressed in all porn scenes, its popular in the real world. Also in a "you own me, daddy, I'm your little girl" kind of way. I know this because women have told me that's how it works a lot of the time. The woman can't get into it unless she tells the man he's her "daddy" or "tell me you're my daddy". The overuse in porn I think has taken a lot of meaning out of the use of the term, but part of me thinks a lot of the use is due to insecure females who have issues with their fathers and are looking for a man to give her all the things their dad couldn't give.

Or maybe I'm overanalyzing this...
 
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Doesn't bother me one bit. If a woman / gay bottom calls a guy Daddy, he's basically submitting to the "Daddy" , they are noting that you are in charge. They may call themselves "bitch", like :
"Fuck me Daddy, make me your bitch". Everyday stuff these days.
 
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I really can't stand it anymore. I don't watch porn really at all anymore and when I try to just see what's out there, its daddy this and daddy that and cum for daddy and I want daddy's cum and am I daddy's good girl or bad girl for daddy and its fucking annoying as shit. I mean is that the porn norm now, the daddy fetish? Its an instant turn off for me. I don't know why, it just doesn't seem sexy or erotic at all. Hell I can't even consider it slutty.

Is this what porn has come to? I know its not pervasive but its pretty fucking common maybe every other scene the girl is calling the dude her daddy.

Is this a huge turn on for men? Most men? Men with children? Men with daughters? Men who wish they had children? Men who have wives that aren't slutty enough for them, or submissive enough? Is it a submission fetish/fantasy? Is it a domination kind of thing?

Help me I am curious to know what this phenomenon is all about and is it at the heart of the male viewer or just a way to make porn more gonzo-mainstream.
Agreed. It's definitely translated into sexual behaviour in the real world. Now every top described themselves as a "Dom top". Remember 50 shades of gray, all the buzz around that book because it was so fringe and niche - now that type of dynamic is absolutely normalised, if not expected. O tempora o mores