As my friends know, I am a wife-beating, gay-bashing member of the KKK. In my spare time I also like to hate Jews, bash America and I do a fairly good line in Snobby British Imperialist. I am justified because you want to cut my jewels off, sneer at my dress sense, laugh at my attempts to dance, snigger at my dental challenges and you killed the only real friend I ever had. Perhaps my humour is misplaced to introduce the serious nature of this thread. Perhaps though we all need to lighten up a bit as well. I am a white, middle aged (now 40), straight male brought up in the western christian culture, and if I was so minded I could look at everything nasty in the world and believe what some people are seeming to say and accept that it is all my fault. The counter revolution to everyone else's rights but my own, is for me to find my own victimhood. That woman is sexist, that black man racist, that gay a heterophobe etc etc. This is bullshit. No doubt some do push the pendulum too far, they can not allow the revolution to stop, because without it they have no purpose. Thanks Robespierre (bloody frenchie). I appreciate that some will be sick of us discussing NJ, but I believe we see a victim (oh god) of the counter revolution of victimhood. And I wonder if the perpertrator's victimhood is the new weapon of control against which she was venting. Shit, you used to just be allowed to control me, now you control me by being the victim of my positive affirmation. Do you see what I am saying?