Almost 30 and never in love

Exbiker

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Hmm.

I had 9 relationships of 1 or 2 years from age 21.

And then met "the one" at age 36 and "married" him at 45...

I'm possibly not the right person. But I will say this.

There is no secret. It's about attitudes rather than procedures.

You need to be open, observant. You need to be interested in other people, rather than interested in attracting a mate.,You need to do some things about body/ haircut/ clothes/ etc. You need to be relaxed. You need to respond and be able to "take it up a level" when the opportunity is there, not shoot for the stars straight from the get-go. It's a ladder or mountain path more than a teleport...

But above all else, you need to be yourself.

Really be yourself. Life is - or can be - such an adventure. We are all unique, with our own experiences. Our own perspectives. Do you ever wonder why there are so many people? It's because we need those different perspectives, different thoughts, different dreams, hopes, preferences, tastes, talents ...

Learn to share yours, and appreciate others.

Take it easy.

:)
 
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