Spiker said:
And some posters in general do ridiculously over cater to a woman's point of view which in and of itself says a lot.
I think some posters, when possible try and see things from a human perspective, which includes all possible ways that box sexes and persons of varied orientations relate to each other.
Spiker, you can't hurt me with such remarks. I am proud to identify myself as a feminist in the political sense .. in the same way I try and be anti-racist and anti-homophobic. At the same time, I am very secure in my masculiinty. I love being a man, being "manly", holding a woman in my arms tenderly one time and then the next time, lifting her up by her buttocks and fucking the living daylights out of her -- that is when I'm not being a sanctimonious joykiller. And I watch movies that some guys wouldn't dare tell their buddies they watch (aka "chick flicks") -- why? Because I enjoy them more than formulaic overblown action movies. And Spiker .. I was on my high school football team and I know as much about Hockey as I do about Opera, and enjoy them both. I don't care if this confuses the heck out of some people. A man recently called my masculinity into question because I have an aria ring tone on my cell phone. To quote you: "which in and of itself says a lot"
And btw, I did give lots of hickeys in the exact same way you described. I just give them on the ass now -- all the better to complement a woman's tattoos.
Stick to the main lines of a discussion in a thread; oppose ideas you do not agree with, with soundly constructed counter-arguments. In doing so, you don't have to be a joykiller if you want to show off with a little bravado.
Mercilessly pillorying your debate opponents has a certain appeal as a spectator sport.
Dear SlickWilly,
At least a full 18 hrs have passed since the last post to this thread. So the idea of a hot blooded response by me should be percluded from your lyrical mind (and I've always liked the smell of burning bridges, its a favorite flaw of mine online).
Everybody plays a role in a social forum. You yours and me mine. I have purposely stayed away from stepping on your stones all this time because we filled similar roles here (I've even praised you twice here). It seems that you were unaware of that (i.e. roles not praise) and decided to step on mine for your gain.
I want to say bravisimo.
Only you could take what I said and gain by mentioning anti-racism, anti-homophobia, anti-misongyny, pro-aria, pro-football....blah, blah, blah,... by simulataneously, purposely misconstruing my words.
What I meant by "which in and of itself says a lot" is that you make yourself TOO wonderfully perfect for some eyes to be real. In other words your persona is most likely contrived and if it is not, well then SlickWilly you are not and I then am wrong.
I think in balance my posts are more "from a human" perspective than yours and probably potray my 'assness' just right, please feel no need to embelish them for me.
I'd have more 'truth' to share but I feel this is enough for you to swallow at this time Slick. I look foreward to your response, if you deign to give one. Be advised that YOU do get the LAST word on this matter simply because in this venue I sense you have had more to lose than I as I escape and you remain. *low long bow*
Most Sincerely,
Spiker
P.S. Thank you Matthew for reminding me of my option to flame for fun and profit.
P.P.S. You should have left well enough alone, you had a defender.