i posted a lengthy thread on this in the relationships section. not much else out there. depends on a lot of factors. location, standards, etc. a lot of people recommended craigs list to me. i found though that there is a lot of spam and scams on there. a lot of gay guys will contact you there too. it's rough out there. if you want to find women to have sex with, i think the bars are the best place to go, alcohol is involved. i've hooked up with a lot of girls on OKcupid. Match.com is too vanilla, although i've fucked a lot of girls there too.it can be frustrating because they're all looking for relationships.