Hi Cottonfield,
I wouldn't characterize my comments as complaints...It was more of a query...
One of the posters here used the word I was searching for: bulk. I think if you have as much in that department as some of us do, it makes itself known....
But I was simply inquiring as to whether or not I was the only one with this feeling or if others had it too...
To answer your question directly: I don't know if I would want my penis to be of a different size. The whole thing is, no pun intended, a double-edged sword.
On the one hand, if I am in a sauna or at a club or at a party, I get almost any man I want. That is a real treat. Being gay and being so well-endowed is, frankly, a bit like having won the lottery. And I'm very grateful for that and I never forget it. But it was just dumb luck and I keep that in mind too, trying to treat everyone interested kindly...
On the other hand, there are a lot of disadvantages to it. Penis envy, being reduced to just a dick (I live overseas and am known in town as "the American with the huge dick")...I find it sometimes embarrasing to know that people I meet already know something private about me (that's why I finally said, oh, the hell with it and posted pics on the Net). The other disadvantage - and the other reason for the pictures I posted - is that about 85% to 90% of men can't or won't take me anally. That is very frustrating. And then there is the topic I generated here, just generally being aware of the thing flopping around..
So, that was the long answer to your question. The short answer is that I would probably prefer to have a cock that wasn't as thick as the one I have, trading in my thickness for more length though I am already quite long. But even if your cock is extremely long, you don't always have to completely penetrate your partner, whether it be a man or a woman. But if it is extremely thick, there is little you can do to change that for your partner. That said, I'm grateful for what I have.
Funny enough, the two other men I know who have extremely wide and thick cocks are also too big for their partners. All three of us (all gay) do not have anal sex at home...and that is frustrating indeed.