Oh I would bet a big part of me banging her is to get back at him, I think he is a complete asshole. Even if there was a chance that I wouldn't be ok with him as one of my best friends shouldn't he try and respect my feelings. I was hurt and he used the things I told him when I was upset or angry with her to get her to not want to date me anymore. You know like the things you tell your friends just to blow off steam. Yeah but she could be useing us but I don't have any emotions invested in it so i can't get hurt so I am pretty cool with it.